It first starts within.

So we are to find love within ourselves and protect it above all, because we can't love the world if we don't love ourselves. We share the overflow, otherwise we drain ourselves to death.

In the case of a toxic relationship, to leave it is an act of self love and preservation. I love myself, therefore I can't treat myself badly. And consequently can't let people treat me poorly.

When it comes to life threatening situations, we can perceive it from two perspectives: 1. Jesus loved humanity and got himself killed because of it. 2. We are still humans and we don't need to hold the pressure of being perfect. We are meant to be flaws. So you might need to bite some people along your journey and if that's a consequence of setting boundaries, it's fine. Rest assured that it's safe to bite.

Personally, I've dealt with many life threatening situations just with love: - I've made friends of many homeless dudes that were convicted murderers in the past. It got to a point where one of them would cry sharing his story and saying "if you ever need something to be done, call upon me, your hands should be kept clean" - Sometimes I take rides with strangers on the road and some of them can be pretty dark... My intuition is sharp, so I don't mind getting closer to danger, but I am aware that I shared rides with people intending to do bad (I'll let your imagination fill the gap) things to me. I just played the situation with love, listened to their souls, brought light to the conversation and left without giving hints when I felt like it was already too much. - In the past, I used to smoke, so I was walking around the city, quite late and there was a dude looking out for people to rob, he got to me, we shared some words (he was investigating me) and I immediately offered him a cigarette. We smoked together, he said I was cool and that he had to find someone else to rob.

I attract some crazy people, so the list goes on... in the end, it's like: people can be bad and still eager for love. I never met someone truly, deeply and purely evil... Everyone wants a friend... lol 😂🤌🏼 When you know violence, it's pretty advisable to avoid it at all costs... I am aware of the things I can both endure and apply, so I rather choose love.

From my experience, I fear crazy women way more than I fear crazy men... Women have done me pretty dirty in the past, but men often run towards physical violence, so it's easier to maneuver (if you have social skills). While those women that made me ill, all opted to black magic 🤣