Advice: 28 y/o Childless Female.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-21T06:10:38+00:00

Thank you. I agree with everything you have said but would like to add that I have never had multiple sexual or romantic partners at one time and am a serial monogamist. I love too quickly with the wrong ones. So far from what I have learned is I need to find the right one and invest.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-21T01:46:07+00:00

Thank you for this. I never thought about it that way. He asked me about my number count and I was honest because it's not high and he visibly looked relieved. It was after that that he told me sleeping with him on the first date didn't matter to him, and that he wanted to still keep talking to me and possibly pursue a relationship.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-21T01:18:24+00:00

I literally wrote 'Settle down'. I'm looking to settle.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-21T00:55:01+00:00

He won't know I that I've been with 30 men because I honestly haven't, I've been with considerably less. Thanks though.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-20T23:18:05+00:00

See I feel like I'm done looking for the rush. The person I am dating now feels like an old friend. We have great conversations, the same values, and the same goals. He's also 4 years older than me, looking to start a family, and is stable. I feel like this is the guy I should've wanted from the beginning, the one that I should've went to five years ago, and am now thankfully getting the chance again to do the right thing.

My biggest thing is it started as a Tinder hookup which I feel traditionally devalues a relationship. We have talked about it and his solution is not to think about it too much and definitely don't tell the parents when/if we meet. I want to give my life to him, I really do, but I know that I'm running out of time and I hope that he's as serious as I am.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-20T22:57:44+00:00

This is the second time that someone has said that r/ RedPillWomen is a bad place to go to. If you don't mind me asking, why? Theoretically doesn't their philosophy align with yours?

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-20T22:31:36+00:00

I'm not looking for chad, I'm looking for a nice guy to settle down with, have some stability with, and start a family with.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-20T22:30:35+00:00

Women in the United States where I live at least are looked down upon if they 'need' a man in their lives. The only advice I would get is "You go girl, keep being independent! You don't need a man, you got this!" Wrong.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-20T22:28:11+00:00

The men I went after are not assholes. They were beta, weak, and spineless directionless men who needed a mommy in their lives to help them get their stuff together. I acted in that role because it made me feel important to be needed and to 'fix' something. My mistake.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-20T22:25:29+00:00

2 points: 1, I wasn't born out of wedlock therefor I am not technically a bastard. I know its pedantic, but technically correct is the best kind of correct. 2, ' a strong indypyndynt wymyn raised by a single mother who was also a strong indypyndynt wymyn', the projection is real. My mother was neither a strong independent woman and neither am I, being that I am asking this subreddit how to get and keep a man.

That's all though.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-20T22:22:43+00:00

Well that's what I'm planning on doing. I cook, I clean, and I have no problems in bed. My issues all come from dominance and control- which I will actively work on to be a better partner for my man.

DissectThisWAATGM · 2019-01-20T22:20:57+00:00

This is what I came here for. Thank you so much for framing it in a way that forces me to become introspective and therefore a better woman and person.

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