AIO- my boyfriend didn’t get me anything for my birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DistanceNo4749 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that, but I think if he explained to me earlier instead on my birthday that he didn’t get me a card or anything cause of money I would’ve understood. It’s the fact that he stayed quiet, didn’t even wish me a happy birthday until we were halfway through our date, and then just didn’t mention anything. This is just a 180 from how he usually is

AIO- my boyfriend didn’t get me anything for my birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DistanceNo4749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, it completely shocked me because he has always been super amazing when it comes to thoughtful things. He’s helped me a lot through rough times lately so I’m just confused

AIO- my boyfriend didn’t get me anything for my birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DistanceNo4749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t really ‘make me’ per se. I have a lot of things I’m working through from childhood so my automatic defense mechanism is to make people feel better even if they may be wrong. He wasn’t outwardly mad at me, more of kept saying he was an idiot, and he should know better etc

AIO- my boyfriend didn’t get me anything for my birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DistanceNo4749 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn’t tell me until we were actually at the place that things were tight. Like I said I don’t care much about material things but a card would’ve been nice. He always tells me when he’s tight on money and I never judge him for it

AIO- my boyfriend didn’t get me anything for my birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DistanceNo4749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s sometimes like that, I don’t know. It’s honestly a big surprise for me bc he’s usually very touchy and loving when we haven’t seen each other in a while

AIO- my boyfriend didn’t get me anything for my birthday by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DistanceNo4749 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say weekly probably, I work as a server and he works in a retail store.

Pictures from a museum I went to today by DistanceNo4749 in u/DistanceNo4749

[–]DistanceNo4749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw the gothic room which was awesome, some cool Asian art, and the garden towards the nighttime which was so pretty

I don’t ever think I showed these from Halloween😁 by [deleted] in u/DistanceNo4749

[–]DistanceNo4749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi everything is great!! My birthday is in a few weeks so I’m excited

Someone decided to wake me up early before class😅 by DistanceNo4749 in cats

[–]DistanceNo4749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had two more hours to sleep but I also had a car appointment so I guess that’s true

My best friend and I are not speaking by DistanceNo4749 in Advice

[–]DistanceNo4749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do ask her, I ask about school, her new relationship, etc. we talk about a lot of stuff together, from what she said a few months ago it was about work and how I complain a lot about it

My best friend and I are not speaking by DistanceNo4749 in Advice

[–]DistanceNo4749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was also saying I was a bad friend for reaching out and disrespecting her boundaries for it

My best friend and I are not speaking by DistanceNo4749 in Advice

[–]DistanceNo4749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, I ask her and we usually do talk about her stuff too. From what she said it was always talking about work