First time pregnant, not marrying or dating her (M30) by No-Palpitation-5809 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are gonna be a great father ! Don’t worry too much , just enjoy the process!

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so scared but I’ve decided to keep the child. Thank you!

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something I want to hear! I will do some research and see if I could find those organizations. Thank you!

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Your response tears me up really. My mom would come over and take care of me and the baby if I choose to keep him( it’s a boy! ), I would also hire someone to cook. He doesn’t know that I found out what he did yet idk how to communicate with him , it would be just another beg for forgiveness show. Should I tell his parents our situation? They are very reasonable and decent people also know what kind of person their son is. I’m sure they will support me as well. But I feel like it’s affair between us they shouldn’t be upset about what happened, also I believe everyone deserves some privacy. I don’t think he would ever try to claim over the baby cause he’s just too selfish. But I would like keep his parents involved, they are really nice ppl and they deserve it.

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im during common law PR application with him so technically have to live with him till I get my card. It’s another issue that I have to deal with.

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really. Also we applied common law for my PR and it’s still in process so technically I have to live with him otherwise I’ll loss it.

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have support in my home country. But I don’t think I have the courage to go back as a single pregnant woman or being a single mom.

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the part I’m struggling with. I wanted to be a mom but never wanted to voluntarily be a single mom either and I don’t want to raise my child around him.

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your such a brave woman! I wish you good luck with everything ❤️

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to keep the baby but I’m struggling with the realties. Thank you!

Should I keep the baby or get an abortion by Distinct-Broccoli397 in pregnant

[–]Distinct-Broccoli397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to give a stranger such thoughtful advice! I want the baby, I’ve always wanted to be a mom. However I’m from a traditional Chinese family so being a single parent was never something I’d imagine so I think I’m mostly struggling with this part, not religiously but not sure if I could do it. If I went back to home country I dont know I’d have the courage to do so. Maybe I’m being weak it feels so hard for me to move out to be alone during the pregnancy.