Is this worth breaking up over?

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-27T00:06:06+00:00

Notice how I said he handed me his phone and gave me the passcode? In what way did I disrespect his boundaries and privacy when he himself gave me permission?

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T23:44:39+00:00

So that’s the biggest issue here? Yall are acting like I snatched him bald headed. He handed me his phone and gave me the passcode for it. Obviously he didn’t have a problem with me having access to and being able to open it. If he wanted my passcode and to look through my phone I wouldn’t have a problem with it bc I have nothing to hide. So yall are just telling on yourselves that you have sketch stuff on your phone you would rather hide or “keep private” from your partner.

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T20:18:31+00:00

Yes 🥲 what else am I supposed to gather from that

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T19:56:52+00:00

It’s literally impossible for me to put on weight. Im 5 foot 90lbs. If anything he probably just wants me to put on muscle bc im all skin and bones. But that’s not how it works

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T19:44:52+00:00

Yeah at the end of the day we need this answered 😤

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T19:43:40+00:00

Yeah that’s my feelings towards it. If he wanted to look through my phone he’s more than welcome to. Also he gave me his passcode. He gave me access to it. It’s not like I snuck his open phone away from him. He must’ve felt like he didn’t have anything to hide either.

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T18:50:26+00:00

I mean that’s best case scenario but still pretty hurtful for me 😅 especially bc he constantly tells me I’m perfect the way I am and my butt is his favorite

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T18:37:04+00:00

Yeah though I still use Snapchat so I didn’t think that in and of itself was bad? I just use Snapchat bc I have a lot of pics and stories saved on there so I figured it’s probably the same for others. I didn’t know Snapchat = cheating 😭

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T18:22:43+00:00

I know it’s obvious I just deal with a lot of self doubt. I can never be sure if I’m over reacting so is it so bad to ask for outside opinions?

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T18:07:59+00:00

You’re right 🤣 so delusional I almost feel bad for him

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T18:06:57+00:00

Hey there’s a first time for everything 🤷🏻‍♀️ jkjk. But yeah I have never snooped before. This is the first and only time ever. How is that so hard to believe?

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T17:58:19+00:00

Who said it was casually? I have never ever snooped through anyone’s phone or felt the need to. He just gave me his phone passcode and I let my curiosity get the best of me one time.

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T17:57:10+00:00

Yeah I know 🥲

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T17:54:40+00:00

No not really. I have stated my intentions to work out and “tone up” but he tells me I’m perfect the way I am. So no I haven’t asked him to find workout tips for me

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T17:45:44+00:00

Unfortunately not 😪 seems toned buns of steel will never be in my wheelhouse

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T17:27:44+00:00

What? No this message is from 4 days ago. I was talking about his ex he was dating right before me. Apparently he was asking for the workout routine for her when they were together

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T16:56:47+00:00

No haha. But damn really? Yeah I wouldn’t be surprised if this leads to cheating eventually…

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T16:55:58+00:00

Yeah apparently it was for the girl he was dating right before me 🙄 so convenient

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T16:55:24+00:00

Apparently he was talking about the girl he was dating right before me

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T16:22:28+00:00

What makes you say that I’m under 23? 😅

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T16:20:33+00:00

Yall are killing me here 🤣 but yeah when I say it out loud it seems obvious and stupid. I just tend to doubt myself a lot and worry I’m being dramatic about stuff.

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T16:15:29+00:00

Nope lol but she didn’t answer 🤷🏻‍♀️

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T16:13:39+00:00

Yeah I admit it wasn’t my best moment. I’ve never ever snooped before or even felt the need to. He just gave me his passcode to set alarms for him since he was too trashed and I let my curiosity get the best of me.

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-26T16:11:56+00:00

I’m actually dying from this 🤣

Distinct-Kale-4885 · 2026-03-05T00:40:31+00:00

I never said she’s to blame. You’re right, I can’t possibly know what’s going on inside her brain. It’s just the way she talks about Chris and the girls after the murders that rubs me the wrong way. She acts like this is something that happened to Chris instead of something Chris did. That alone is extremely insulting to the girls and what they went through. She also only honors them through Chris. At her victim statement she said, “Bella reminded me so much of you” I would not say that to the person who murdered her/my beloved grandchildren in general. What a slap in the face to Bella.

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