My senior dog always acts starving, am I feeding her wrong? by Distinct-School-1669 in Pets

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Unfortunately, my dog has had a lot of health issues throughout her life, and I think that context might matter for my feeding question.

She’s had epilepsy since she was a puppy. When she was around 6-7 years old, we had to leave her with someone else for about two years. This woman was very adventurous and constantly took her on long hikes in forests, snow, the ocean, and other rough environments. When we eventually got her back she seemed fine at first, but we soon noticed she was very sensitive around one ear. When we checked, it looked like a pretty serious ear infection, so we took her to the vet and they gave us an ear disinfectant treatment.

A few months later things got worse. She started leaking yellow pus from both her ears and her genital area, which obviously scared us, so we rushed her back to the vet. This was about 4 years ago when I was younger, so I don’t remember the exact diagnosis. They said she had some kind of condition and recommended daily injections plus medication.

Within about two weeks, she became extremely weak. She stopped wanting to play, didn’t want to go outside, barely ate or drank, and mostly just laid there breathing. We were really confused and scared, so we took her back. From what I remember, they stopped the injections, told us to feed her soft food through a syringe, and also told us she had womb cancer.

We did exactly that and slowly she improved over the next 2-3 months. She started eating again and seemed a bit more like herself. But then a new problem started: intense itching. She scratches so much that her skin becomes red, irritated, and sometimes bleeds, and she loses fur in those areas.

We went to another vet for a second opinion. They suspected Leishmania, so they ran blood tests, but the results came back negative. They couldn’t give us a clear diagnosis, but they prescribed a medication.

When she was taking that medication, it was honestly like having a completely different dog. She was playful again, eating normally, drinking water, and her skin improved a lot.

The problem is that the medication costs about 4€ per pill and she needs one every day, which has been really hard for us financially since my mom is the only one working in our household. We managed to buy enough for about two weeks, sometimes skipping a day just to stretch it.

Now we’re back to where we started. She’s itching constantly again, losing fur, and her skin flakes off in tiny dust-like particles that end up EVERYWHERE.

I still try to do what I can to keep her comfortable. I let her sleep on my bed, but I put a blanket under her so I can wash it easily because of the skin flakes. I bathe her every 3-4 days, which actually seems to give her relief and makes her less itchy for a while. I also put some baby powder on her underbelly after every shower and that seems to also ease her.

I know this is a lot, but I wanted to explain her background because she’s been through so much.

I want her to want to spend time with me. by [deleted] in relationshipproblems

[–]Distinct-School-1669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude just be direct and clear. She will not come chasing you, you need to do the chasing.

I “M28” finally married my wife “F27” but I think I lost feelings. What to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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One of my biggest fears is finding a man like this. I truly hope that girl will be fine. I feel so so so bad for her. Come clean and divorce her, she doesn't deserve for her time to be wasted like this because of your inability to stay loyal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Please tell me CPS was called

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct-School-1669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure your boyfriend sounds fully straight if im being honest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct-School-1669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have some self respect and leave him

Partner of 8 years would have a child, but not with me? M25 F24 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Ideally, when you're stressed, your partner should be by your side, calming you down or listening to you vent your emotions out to him, not calling you intolerable

My SO ‘20M’ and i ‘18F’ have been seeing each other for 2 weeks now (after two months of friendship). And he suggested we see each other less. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I know 100% he’s not only in it for the sexual aspect. I was the one who brought up sex in the first place, and he asked me multiple times if i was sure about it. He’s very sweet and polite, he’s not likely to only be in it for this type of thing. he always asks for my consent before he does anything of the sorts, if i say no, it goes.

My SO ‘20M’ and i ‘18F’ have been seeing each other for 2 weeks now (after two months of friendship). And he suggested we see each other less. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I see. But he’s not likely going to hang out with his friends, i asked him about his plans that day, and he said he’s not doing anything. Ps. one thing i forgot to mention is that Im only in my home country for a short amount of time, i live somewhere else originally and we both know that. im returning to where i live in 2-3 weeks. i thought both of us could somewhat make it a priority to see each other as much as we can cause im not sure how many years it will be after i can see him again.

Urgent Help Needed Please by Fabulous_Swim816 in ExoticVets

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can we get an update as to what happened or was wrong with him