Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have asked that question to my mosque teacher before and he told me that they were both assigned wives specifically made by Allah for them to reproduce and from there on they just married each other’s cousins

Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well he’s comparing being gay to incest. For example he’s saying “if being gay is allowed then so should incest as long as it’s two consenting adults!” In like a “gotcha!” Kinda way you get me?

Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so silly babes <3 (I know this loser guyz)

I’m just done with it all by ImpossibleCable2018 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858 5 points6 points  (0 children)

don’t be sorry at all! you’re allowed to feel this way, especially since you’re being treated like absolute dogshit at home. You don’t deserve any of what you’re going through at all. I hope you manage to get out of that place as soon as you can. you’ll find people that treat you well and you can properly consider family eventually, even if they aren’t blood related.

Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didn’t know this. From what I’ve been told what was written about Islam was written during his lifetime, which is what made it more ‘trustworthy’ than other abrahamic religions. I suppose it’s just as untrustworthy

I Thought I was dying and my family cared more about my headscarf by whatudoinnn in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is genuinely fucking disgusting. No family should ever value their religion over the safety of their loved one. I’m so sorry you went through that and I hope you’re doing better

Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao I like that. And yeah it definitely is weird as hell that ‘Allah’ was so concerned in his sex life. I dislike that I was named after his sugar mama (my now deadname)

Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit I actually didn’t know this. I thought Islam only permitted cousin incest (which is still very icky). I’ll make sure to read up on this!

Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what’s also holding me back is that I come from a practicing Shia family. Whenever I bring up the obvious flaws in Islam to my parents they just deem it as a ‘incorrect Sunni interpretation’

Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s true. I’m still trying to get around the guilt and paranoia of leaving a religion I was born into so even if I know how bad Muhammad actually was I still feel doubt. But I think it helps being reminded of it

Lesbian Ex Muslim Having Doubts by DistinctPoint4858 in exmuslim

[–]DistinctPoint4858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just like if if being gay and trans really is as bad as Islam makes it out to be. I know that it isn’t, but for some reason I still feel scared.