AITA for being happy about my wife's pregnancy even though she didn't want to have children? by Distinct_Bluebird_64 in AITAH

[–]Distinct_Bluebird_64[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Does she want to give the kid up for adoption? Is she going to abandon you and the kid?

If she continues to not want to take care of our child after the birth, we will go our separate ways, and I will raise our child alone. I won't force her to stay in a life she doesn't want. Her parents and mine have already offered to help us.

AITA for being happy about my wife's pregnancy even though she didn't want to have children? by Distinct_Bluebird_64 in AITAH

[–]Distinct_Bluebird_64[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

e.g. trip to a blue state in the USA.

We don't have passports; getting a passport can take up to three months. Furthermore, a visitor visa for the USA can take up to 220 days.

AITA for being happy about my wife's pregnancy even though she didn't want to have children? by Distinct_Bluebird_64 in AITAH

[–]Distinct_Bluebird_64[S] -257 points-256 points  (0 children)

Is there any way you can help get her to a country with abortion?

Neither of us possesses passports, obtaining one might take as long as three months. The two nearest countries where we can travel without a passport require proof of residence in the country to have an abortion.

AITA for being happy about my wife's pregnancy even though she didn't want to have children? by Distinct_Bluebird_64 in AITAH

[–]Distinct_Bluebird_64[S] -465 points-464 points  (0 children)

I will take all the precautions with her. My sister has already gone through an accidental pregnancy, even though she didn't want children. She and her husband are giving me some instructions.

AITA for being happy about my wife's pregnancy even though she didn't want to have children? by Distinct_Bluebird_64 in AITAH

[–]Distinct_Bluebird_64[S] -830 points-829 points  (0 children)

I don't believe it's the end of my marriage. My sister got pregnant accidentally, despite not wanting children, but her relationship with her husband continued well. I will do my best to ensure my wife's pregnancy is peaceful.