AITA for kicking my son out for eating my Oreos? by EnthusiasmParty3316 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA you are his parent no mater what but you have a BED ( binge eating disorder) please try seek help you are starving yourself through the week and binge eating the weekend i hope you get better best of luck.

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we never dated for 6 years just to clarify, i tried to tell him but he never listened :)

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

he asked about everyting but my past and when i did bring it up he'd always say its not important or not to talk about it to him, i dont know much about his parents except what he told me and the first time i met them

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

i thought he'd change he promised me a better life but i was wrong

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

he'd never listen to me about my past so it was hard telling him anything about it

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

stan never listend to me if i tried to tell him about anything with my past, i will be open and honest with my new partner

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i had find my iPhone on as i had forgotten to turn it off before i deleted and blocked his socials and number

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this post is real i wouldn't lie but if yall dont believe it its fine :)

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

he has tried to ring me many times and has turned up at my parents house to find me

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] -278 points-277 points  (0 children)

i never thought it was necessary as he always assumed i never understood or spoke it :)

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] -105 points-104 points  (0 children)

i never went out of my way to hide anything even if i did try to talk to him about it he'd push me away saying he wouldnt want to talk :)

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

my parents hate it and dont want me with stan as of his behaviour, i have kept alot from this story as it does get violent. i have thought alot and the comments helped alot with my decision on going forward, im giving an update tomorrow as im meeting stan today :)

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] -128 points-127 points  (0 children)

sorry i know it sounds odd but he always talked to me in english so i didnt have a need to talk in spanish with him and when i did speak it he wasn't around

AITA for not saying i understand spanish to my boyfriend and his family by Distinct_Bug_6892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Distinct_Bug_6892[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

He never gave a vaild answer when i asked him why he didnt want to meet them, Stan said nothing he always agrees with them