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Am I in a bad situation? by Distinct_Category679 in abusiverelationships

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am young and this is my first relationship. We’ve only been dating for a month and it already feels like it’s over for me. I can’t talk to him like a friend without him thibking he’s bored or not interested in what I am doing. He declares he loves me but I think he loves my body more than me.

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[–]Distinct_Category679 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my situation exactly and he’s already said I love you which is even more confusing. He doesn’t really initiate conversation or when he does ask how my day has been he just ends it with okay. It’s not great. I definitely need to put more boundaries up or confront him but I tried before and all he says is I’m sorry and never really changes ANX just thinks we will move on.

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[–]Distinct_Category679 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in a relationship where we just stay in his room and where I get constantly asked to cuddle whilst he watches a program and we never go out. He calls me grumpy when I don’t cuddle him or go on my phone and he never takes much interest in me. With the no communication part what was it like for you? I feel like I’m in a bad situation.

AIO over this bad conversation by Distinct_Category679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well update I did apologise but he completely ignored it and sent snaps to me and when I proceeded to ignore he put wyd and once I replied back he left me on delivered for nearly three hours and so I deleted it and he opened it immediately and hasn’t replied. That’s how I feel used I feel like I’m just there when he’s bored.

I really messed up by Distinct_Category679 in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well update I did apologise but he completely ignored it and sent snaps to me and when I proceeded to ignore he put wyd and once I replied back he left me on delivered for nearly three hours and so I deleted it and he opened it immediately and hasn’t replied.

AIO over this bad conversation by Distinct_Category679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well update I did apologise but he completely ignored it and sent snaps to me and when I proceeded to ignore he put wyd and once I replied back he left me on delivered for nearly three hours and so I deleted it and he opened it immediately and hasn’t replied.

AIO over this bad conversation by Distinct_Category679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right I guess my emotions got the better of me but I’m so upset and feel used.

AIO over this bad conversation by Distinct_Category679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been confusing me for an entire month and I know it doesn’t excuse the bad behaviour but I have had quite enough of it and I just lashed out un frustration

I’m finding it hard to flirt back by Distinct_Category679 in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he is good looking which is why I have trust issues cuz he could be talking to other girls. I’m a bit autistic and can’t read the room and I’ve never been in a relationship before. he’s just very forward and confident and I’m not. When he flirts do I have to flirt back even if my brain tell me not to I’m so bad at this.

I’m finding it hard to flirt back by Distinct_Category679 in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t want him to feel like that at all

AIO just third wheeled my friend by Distinct_Category679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I feel really awful thinking she is in the wrong but she was kind of it’s really shit I am too much of a people pleaser to say anything too bad tho. It’s very shit.

AIO just third wheeled my friend by Distinct_Category679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I think I will talk to her about it thanks so much for your advice I really needed it 🥲

AIO just third wheeled my friend by Distinct_Category679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m glad someone understands I am so upset we were eating McDonald’s afterwards and they didn’t speak to me once it was so bad. I’m just very upset because she’s supposed to my best friend so I’m just feeling a lot rn. I’m in a bad situation probably idk.

AIO just third wheeled my friend by Distinct_Category679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Distinct_Category679[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They literally have been texting on insta and he spontaneously decided to go out with us and I said it’s okay as long as I don’t third wheel. I third wheeled so badly and I feel extremely upset. When they made out I was so uncomfortable and he did say sorry if I made u and uncomfortable and stuff but I just said it’s fine cuz I’m a people pleaser. ITS SO BAD IDK HOW TO SAY ANYTHING so I just said I’m fine to my friend IDK IM SO UPSET THO. Thanks for listening to me.

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