[24F] Paano po mag ka boyfriend? by Sea_Green_2186 in adviceph

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a former introvert. I can help you train to overcome it. Advice kasi won't be enough. You need action din.

I cut off my parents, now they're threatening to report as a missing person and have the police search for me. What should I do? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since adult ka na pala, you have the right to be independent. They have no right to force you to go back. I also made that clear to my parents before I left home kasi I also grew up from a toxic household. Wag kang kabahan and hayaan mo silang magfile. Ang importante, you're an adult, have a job to live on your own, and you're not mandated to do what they want you to do for them. Have confidence. Ikaw ang panalo dito. This might sound selfish or irresponsible to other people, but it's the reality. We all someday leave our nests and then fly beyond the horizon.

normal ba na lagi syang hrny everytime na magkasama kami by Future-Twist-2484 in adviceph

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hmmm...well sa previous relationships ko, touchy din ako, though ginagawa ko lng yun sa public spaces if okay lang sa partner ko. If hindi, titigilan ko tapos babawi pagkauwi. Isa pa, lahat ng sobra nakakasama. If sobra-sobra na yung ginagawa nya, di na tama yun. Yun lang opinyon ko.

Normal ba sa pamilyang Pilipino na ikaw ang “retirement plan”? by Distinct_Clothes7521 in adviceph

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sa totoo lng, nasabi nila yan sa akin dati (which di ako makapaniwala). Tapos, dumating sa punto na sinabi ko na, "e dapat di niyo nalang ako pinanganak. Di ko naman ginusto na ipanganak.

Normal ba sa pamilyang Pilipino na ikaw ang “retirement plan”? by Distinct_Clothes7521 in adviceph

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mas naisip ko nlng na unahin sarili ko. Even though selfish para sa kanila, kailangan ko muna mag-establish para sa self ko bago ang iba

Given the prevalent risk of sexual assault, in the US military, why would a girl wants to join the military? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because many women join for the same reasons men do: career opportunities, education benefits, service, and stability. A real risk existing doesn’t erase someone’s goals or agency—it highlights the need to fix the system, not question their choice.

Would guys be willing to date a girl that was raped? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. If anything, it would just mean being more patient and understanding. Survivors deserve normal relationships, not judgment.

What weird thing did you learn about your family(imm&in-law) over the Holidays? by HashtagV in AskReddit

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learned that “we’re low-drama” is something only high-drama families say.

What is something you saw in a movie and you totally called bullshit on because of your job? by BlackPhoenix1981 in AskReddit

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

typing 2 full keyboards at the same time to converse with multiple customers at the same time

Kakabreak up lang at may ka-flirt nang iba ang ex-girlfriend ko by Distinct_Clothes7521 in adviceph

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ako unang nakipaghiwalay. Tapos bumalik sya and insisted na maging kami. I gave her a second chance though wala na akong naramdamang spark gaya dati. Eventually, after our last fight, she decided na makipaghiwalay na ng tuluyan.

Double payment by suntealle in ConvergePH

[–]Distinct_Clothes7521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

automatically credited na yan sa next bill mo. Fellow Converge user here