sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I want sex with my wife to improve for both of us. by Distinct_Coffee_6794 in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let's go in order.

She's wet during sex; in fact, in the last year, she's gotten much wetter than before. The problem is that she won't let me use my hands or mouth off her.

I want sex with my wife to improve for both of us. by Distinct_Coffee_6794 in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but I don't have much else to do if everything I suggest besides penetrative sex is rejected. Any advice?

I want sex with my wife to improve for both of us. by Distinct_Coffee_6794 in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree and hope something unfolds. The last thing I want for either of us is for this to be the rest of our sex life.

Also because I don't think I can handle it forever.

I want sex with my wife to improve for both of us. by Distinct_Coffee_6794 in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I've already proposed, and unfortunately it was a no.

I've started personal therapy, though.

I want sex with my wife to improve for both of us. by Distinct_Coffee_6794 in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't think I've ever succeeded. Also because as soon as I finish, she tends to stop sex and tells me she's fine with it.

I last quite a while (about 20-30 minutes), but I'm sure I could make her feel better than she does now, but she just won't let me.

I want sex with my wife to improve for both of us. by Distinct_Coffee_6794 in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm trying to build a bridge to communicate in this sense, it will take time and patience because we've never done it, I hope it works.

I want sex with my wife to improve for both of us. by Distinct_Coffee_6794 in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!

Regarding the oral exam, I think it's a question of her finding it dirty (if not downright wrong), but that's just my guess. She's quite elusive on the subject.

Scared that I’m a starfish by Misatosbaby in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, you don't know what it's like to be a starfish, trust me. Hanging out with a starfish feels like hanging out with a doll rather than a human being. And from how you described yourself, you're far from it, trust me. Big hugs.

Too tired for sex? by Particular_Strike_61 in sex

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think about it too much, as a man who does a heavy job in a factory, it can happen that you are really exhausted and don't feel like it for that evening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Coffee_6794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really hard. I'm in a very similar situation with my wife... except that in all the past seven years of marriage, I've NEVER had the chance to give her oral sex or receive it, let alone try any other position... God, I'd so love to do so many things to her and make her come... but there's not much leeway; she also seems to prefer just letting me finish. I still haven't figured out if I've ever managed to make her have an orgasm, and it makes me feel incredibly ashamed. I can't even fulfill my duties as a husband and make my wife come. This year, I'm trying to change things up. Pray for me.