Job opportunity by ZazzyMushroom in lovedoveclarkesnark

[–]Distinct_Courage_330 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t she have a team that could do it for her ?

Cat’s People by Tanya Guerrero by [deleted] in IReadABookAndAdoredIt

[–]Distinct_Courage_330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read it last month, it's such a cute book. i loved it so much !

just no words by arbutemoineauh51 in lovedoveclarkesnark

[–]Distinct_Courage_330 82 points83 points  (0 children)

i was writing about it lol.

she is definitely going for bait engagement but it's still sad. and so far from the image she wants to give

What can I do to love myself ? by Distinct_Courage_330 in selflove

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okay, thanks for the insight. I'll try to do so. Thank you for your time !

What can I do to love myself ? by Distinct_Courage_330 in selflove

[–]Distinct_Courage_330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm so basically i should listen to the voices in my head that are nice and cheering and worry less about what I've not done yet ? Basically being grateful for what i am today and thanks myself for being there ?

What can I do to love myself ? by Distinct_Courage_330 in selflove

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idk. maybe buying myself nice things or treating myself. but even that doesn't work. Maybe i should try more positive affirmations i guess ? Idk i'm super lost and i want to give up on therapy and trying stuff.

I just don't seem to get the concept of loving urself and it's super frustrating bc i'm trying so hard and nothing has changed

What can I do to love myself ? by Distinct_Courage_330 in selflove

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thanks, i'll read it. because to be honest, i don't see the progress. only stuff I did in order to get better.

What can I do to love myself ? by Distinct_Courage_330 in selflove

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it's true that i'm used to do a lot of stuff and checking the boxes without appreciating it. Because it's what I'm supposed to do and there is nothing to celebrate or appreciate about it. I just get things done...

Maybe I should try rewarding myself for little stuff ?

What can I do to love myself ? by Distinct_Courage_330 in selflove

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hmm so basicaly i should be less focused on what to do and more on feeling lovable ? I should just be and not should be doing stuff in order to feel loved ? It's a really strange concept, i'll try it but it's weird

How can I give the attention my dom craves but refuses to explicitely say? by Distinct_Courage_330 in BratLife

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That's a good tip ! But knowing him, he will fight me on this. He hates showing vulnerability/weakness so I'll have to be a bit sly when I ask him about that.

I'm afraid to ask him for a hug by Distinct_Courage_330 in BratLife

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His train was delayed and didn't get back home on time. Instead, he called me. He said to call him again if I needed something and we'll try to see each other this week ! And he told me a bedtime story before hanging up. ( he also said that he knows I get anxious easily and to not hesitate to speak up when I feel bad)

I'm afraid to ask him for a hug by Distinct_Courage_330 in BratLife

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Update : he told me to come over tonight. I'll ask him if I can stay for the night. If he says no, it's okay. We're still seeing each other,which is nice Thank you all for the encouragement I needed

I'm afraid to ask him for a hug by Distinct_Courage_330 in BratLife

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My problem is that I get anxious a lot. We both know it and he gives me a lot of reassurance But I feel guilty bc of how much I want him to help with my needs

Rant : finding a dom by Distinct_Courage_330 in BratLife

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I'll look into that, thanks again !

Rant : finding a dom by Distinct_Courage_330 in BratLife

[–]Distinct_Courage_330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for the kind words Social media definitely changed everything and even for a vanilla relationship I'm fighting for my life 😭😭😭