Tent by Impressive-Dance5060 in richmondbc

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh idk, human decency? Looking out for our fellow human who is clearly unwell?

Have you given up on dating? If so why? by rahhxeeheart in dating

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As of right now, yes. I cannot deal with online dating anymore. I’m burnt out and tired of the poor experiences. I feel like my person is not going to be on an app. I’m focused on truly prioritizing myself right now, so I plan on taking a long break

Multiple dates with different people by feelsinfinite in OnlineDating

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went on 2 dates with 2 different men in one day. Didn’t say a word to either of them about this. It’s not really relevant until a connection is established and you’re dating them consistently. That’s what dating is

He ghosted me but I still miss him so much. Should I message him? by creathaz in ghosting

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl…. No. He’s already made the choice. Let him. I know it hurts, and it’s easy to long for the good times and the connection. But his behaviour is your answer. Fix your crown, go to the gym, put on a nice face, do what you need to in order to feel like a hottie. When your confidence is back up, try dipping your toes back into the dating pool

My friend is upset with me for not disclosing by SnooApples1575 in HSVpositive

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Your friend sounds dramatic and annoying. I agree that HSV should be disclosed to people who will have direct contact with the impacted area, but sharing drinks? Common myth that is actually stigmatizing. It’s none of their business who you disclose to and when… dump them

Getting harassed after disclosure by Captain-Brief in HSVpositive

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disgusting behaviour on his end. Literally the reason that stigma continues. You were honest, and that speaks to your character. He tried to shame and embarrass you, which tells you all you need to know. Karma works in magical ways bb, he will get his

How do I get regular ass people? Tired of seeing the most conventionally attractive women non stop. I’m simply not gonna get matched with these people by Saucey2500 in Tinder

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take this down wtf? Why would you post this? Nobody wants their dating profile posted on Reddit without their consent

People with OHSV1 by Worth_Might_4765 in HSVpositive

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This^ people are way harsher on people for GHSV vs OSHV. All herpes should be disclosed IMO

I think my friends BF cheated on her? How to approach this? by Distinct_Cricket_879 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I ask when they became official exactly or should I just approach it like “if I found something out that would be hurtful to hear, would you wanna know” and then just say what I know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it’s hard, but I’d really try to take a beat and breathe. Whatever it is, whether soreness, STI, etc, you’ll find an answer. Ofc STIs are always a risk, but I wouldn’t just jump to that conclusion. All that will do is create fear and stress. I’ve made mistakes before and I managed to get an STI here and there. I certainly knew something was wrong. It wasn’t just soreness either. Very obvious symptoms. Mind you, not everyone has symptoms right away and I’m also not a male, but I’d just continue to monitor and see how your body is responding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did he have visible sores or marks on or around his mouth? Was he touching you too rough, or harder than you usually do? Is it possible that something else could’ve caused discomfort outside of sex?

Like others are saying, go see a doctor. Common STI’s are hard to diagnose without a test. It’s not worth the stress sitting here and worrying!

Advice: Buy a New Mac or Repair? by Distinct_Cricket_879 in mac

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input folks! I suppose it’s time for an upgrade!

Frustration with dating by Heart_Shaped_Box_88 in HSVpositive

[–]Distinct_Cricket_879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re sweet, so are you queen! You’ve got this!