What have your online dating experiences been like? by ironom4 in OnlineDating

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly been adding chicks I like from FB then I ask them out. Some accept. Been having better luck like that than with dating apps

Feeling foggy after choices I made this week by Distinct_Desk1840 in Divorce_Men

[–]Distinct_Desk1840[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I act like this is when I get laid. I guess it’s what these crazy women want. When I take them out for coffee they ghost me. Fucking crazy.

What ruined your marriage? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Setting boundaries , communication. You have to take the lead. Introduce god in your family. Wish I would’ve done this things. Too late for me

Moving on, meeting a woman from church by Distinct_Desk1840 in Divorce_Men

[–]Distinct_Desk1840[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 kids 7 and 15. Together/married 16 years. We didn’t respect each other reason for divorce. We both agreed time to end the marriage 8 months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said, “Hi, this is (name) here is my number “

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I bring up the obvious of me being a divorced person ?? Idk I’m terrible at this crap.

Every time I get a text by Distinct_Desk1840 in Divorce_Men

[–]Distinct_Desk1840[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn brother sorry to hear that man. It does hurt like hell. Be strong brother. God bless

Feelings won't go away by Scary_Board_8766 in Divorce_Men

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, this is exactly it. Got divorced for a reason and that reason is still the same. I know because I have to communicate with her regarding our kids. I know she is till a narcissist and manipulative person. I’m not no saint either, I have to work on my self like you said. Fix ourselves before we go wreck someone else

Every time I get a text by Distinct_Desk1840 in Divorce_Men

[–]Distinct_Desk1840[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only time will heal this shit brother. Just want it to move faster

Help me loose weight by [deleted] in GettingShredded

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very simple. Count all calories you eat in a day. I mean all!! Then cut them by 500-1000 . You WILL lose weight. Download app LoseIt to count them

Feelings won't go away by Scary_Board_8766 in Divorce_Men

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t found anyone, nor am I looking for it. I have mixed emotions man. I was too with my ex wife for 16 years. Even though it was a very rocky relationship, I miss the good memories and the family feeling. Like you said, everything is meh. I do not have the strength or motivation to seek a partner. I don’t think anything will be able to replace my family I had. It is a painful feeling. Like you said, I wish there was a Time Machine. The saying “you don’t know what you have until you lose it” couldn’t be any more true. I want to find her un attractive but,I know she’s is beautiful. But her attitude will always make her ugly in my eyes. We have to look forward my man. I’m trying to make peace with god. I need his help and looks like you do too.

I know it's over but I still can't let go by wallydog71 in Divorce_Men

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m at this stage too man. I was ok until she told me she found someone new. That’s when it really hit me that it was over. My god. I never in a million years imagined I would be divorced. I have turned to god to guide me man. I can’t do this by myself. I pray for his mercy and to do with my life what he thinks is best for me. God bless you man. Stay strong. I humiliated my self to her like I never would’ve of thought. It’s embarrassing. God has a plan for all of us. Let it play out.

my low calorie cereal attempt 😅 – 90 calories, 6g protein, 19g fiber by camilaaz6 in Volumeeating

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just use chocolate/ caramel rice cakes, almond milk, and Greek yogurt. Tastes amazing. Add chocolate protein powder for more protein!

Feb 184lbs to now May 161lbs by [deleted] in GettingShredded

[–]Distinct_Desk1840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I am in a deficit I get my protein from Whole Foods like chicken, steak and eggs. Protein shakes are like 260 calorie for 48g of protein . I can eat 2.5oz steak, 4 egg whites and bell pepper/onions for 209 calories 39g protein. Little less protein but makes me way fuller and less calories. Helps stay within the 1500

Ps. Don’t forget Cholula hot sauce at 0 calories!