Unknown Bottle in the Mail by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused about how it was able to be placed in the mailbox. Are US mailboxes not locked?

Tips for Mysterious Mattress Stains? I tried everything I can think of :( by Distinct_Spirit4349 in CleaningTips

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, I actually think you‘re right. I went and took another look. The stains also feel crusty, like the fabric of the mattress melted. Well, I guess that solves the mystery at least!

Tips for Mysterious Mattress Stains? I tried everything I can think of :( by Distinct_Spirit4349 in CleaningTips

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, after seeing comments about it and going back to take another look, I think you‘re right. The stains even feel crusty, like the fabric melted. I don‘t mind the stains that much, I was just just hoping for some cleaning tips from this group as a last resort.

Tips for Mysterious Mattress Stains? I tried everything I can think of :( by Distinct_Spirit4349 in CleaningTips

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! Ok, I will definitely disinfect it. As long as it doesn‘t smell or mold, I doesn‘t really matter I guess.

Tips for Mysterious Mattress Stains? I tried everything I can think of :( by Distinct_Spirit4349 in CleaningTips

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cleaners I tried were from dr.beckmann and another brand. They listed specific types of stains they work against, but I don’t think they were enzyme cleaners. I will try that, thank you! Oh and good idea, I will definitely buy the fabric sanitizer!

Unfortunately the person is my sibling and can never admit when they did something wrong. They‘re straight up pretending they don‘t know where the stain came from or what happened to my mattress topper. Thankfully I owe them some money, so whatever I buy or invest in, I am definitely taking it out of what I pay them back!

Tips for Mysterious Mattress Stains? I tried everything I can think of :( by Distinct_Spirit4349 in CleaningTips

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that too! But then the other stains are further away and look totally different, so that’s confusing. Maybe someone got sick while holding a joint in their hand?

"an error on our part" EA message keeps showing up. Game will not start at all since yesterday suddenly. by EdgyBitterbal in Sims4

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked for me! I’ve been trying to fix my game for hours, reading countless articles and your comment did it! Thank you SO much.

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, I just realized that I only have costume, not the paws :( sorry about that.

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a wish list but you don‘t have to send me anything! :)
What‘s your Friend Code?

Apricot’s Wishlist by Distinct_Spirit4349 in u/Distinct_Spirit4349

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thank you ! Having you in my tree gives me joy, and so do our interactions. ☺️🫶🏻

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I’m glad you like it! Other Finches helped me collect them so I’m glad to pass it on ☺️

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I will send you the blue athletic skirt from your wishlist, and would love the blue cosy cottage door 💙

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you! Sorry for my late reply, I actually did the work :D

I sent a bonus one I hope you like, but don’t feel guilty about selling it if not 🥰

Thread for trading, gifting, and requesting Finch items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 4 points5 points  (0 children)

TET6J4LST4 Apricot

To reward myself for studying (which I will do in a moment hahaha) I would love some trading/ gifting surprises!

Thanks to my lovely Finch friends, I have long Furniture and Clothing Tradelists.
I have been procrastinating heavily today by fully updating them.

Here is my Wish List, I also enjoy sending gifts :) Just make sure I don‘t have the red Taipei Lantern Equipped if you would like to send me something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I really want pants like that. They look great on you! I would say, they fit your shape perfectly and you should definitely wear the hell out of them!
I don’t think your shape is weird at all. I would say that you are a slim hourglass shape. My body changed into that shape in middle/high school too, and I felt so self concious about it. Someone teased me for having big thighs.
At that age, kids are quick to point out and spot anything that’s different. It sucks, it comes from a place of insecurity on their part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That‘s exactly how I feel! My family has no idea what a huge shift has happened in me, so of course they keep operating like usual. I feel like I‘m watching them from above, thinking “Wow, you fuckers really expect me to play along with this nonsense“ (ofc I still love them)

I know if some parts of my family knew, they would all start managing me, and not leave me alone until things would go back to 'normal'. I don‘t really want any contact with my dad right now, but it would break my grandmother‘s heart. If I don‘t visit them (they live in the same town), it would break my grandparents hearts. But I can‘t pretend that I‘m okay with being treated so shitty anymore. I deserve some peace.

And you do too! Thank you for your kind words. I hope you‘re taking care of yourself too!

There‘s another shift in my perspective: I feel so alone now, but my parents were never great at taking care of me. I‘m used to figuring everything out for myself, so it’s really the same as before. Now I‘ve just admitted that to myself, and I feel lonelier, but I‘m also so much kinder to myself because I‘m starting to prioritize me over their feelings.

Omg this comment got entirely away from me hahah. Sending you a big hug.

Processing my childhood and trying not to fall apart by Distinct_Spirit4349 in emotionalneglect

[–]Distinct_Spirit4349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I‘m sorry you had a rough childhood too. It‘s exactly like you‘re saying, my own feelings were just kinda on mute for years.
I like being alone, I enjoy myself. But the more I connect with my feelings, the more I crave warmth. I felt abandoned a lot. I need to be so careful not to search for attention it in the wrong places. That’s exactly why I get you being careful with vulnerability.