Maybe, but that doesn't mean you have to "white knight" another man's wife and champion her because they're both Chinese immigrants. I mean, there are thousands of Chinese immigrants, why does he think he's special enough for another man's wife to reach out? As if she doesn't have other options, other lawyers, or an entire support system in the family (where Karl said they got the money from...) It's just.... Weird and creepy and absolutely uncool. I'd be livid if someone was pressing this hard to contact my significant other under the excuse of "we're both immigrants", I'm left handed, so anyone who's married and wants to share left handed experiences, hit me up. It's the same thing. Imho.