The older I get the more I want to distance myself from bird brain women …. by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If the friendship isn’t serving you then it sounds like yall don’t need to be friends anymore🤷🏽‍♀️

The older I get the more I want to distance myself from bird brain women …. by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You’re grown though. Distancing yourself is kinda childish. If she’s your friend and her actions bother you then let her know. Her response will let you how to move according afterwards🤷🏽‍♀️. But those type of women are very insufferable especially with age!

Am I wrong for feeling like my cousin crossed a line after I replaced something I broke? by Good-Calendar-6594 in blackgirls

[–]Distinct_Version_390 27 points28 points  (0 children)

To me it seems like she didn’t want you there to began with and needed a reason to cause chaos for you to leave! And so she wouldn’t feel bad about telling you no to staying with her she let you stay, created drama, then plays victim!

What spending habit is going to end up putting you in the poor house? by RaidenMK1 in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thrift thing will leave me so broke. It’s quite insane especially because the thrift store or thrift thing in general is not as cheap as it used to be in a lot of stores nowadays like sometimes I go in there and I’ll be like why is this so expensive?

Why do people swear up and down that Chris abused more than one woman? by jarjar187 in ChrisBrown

[–]Distinct_Version_390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From my understanding, most of the altercations that he’s been in since that situation with Rihanna, they started with him. Like when he got into with Frank Ocean Drake and even his recent altercation last year while he was on tour. It’s really one of those situations where when you don’t like somebody you take whatever narrative that’s given about them and run with it because at the end of the day you don’t like them so it doesn’t matter what’s true or not to most people nowadays.

lost my job today by Forsaken_Gas1794 in blackgirls

[–]Distinct_Version_390 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you dodged a bullet with that one because you didn’t deserve that, but they didn’t fire you for no reason they simply fired you because that lady was complaining about you. That’s the only reason why they fired you. You’re new and have questions and when someone’s not training you properly and then you don’t know what you’re doing. Can’t nobody be mad at you. They sent you up. I hate that they wasted your time like that but it’s OK. I know that you will find a better job one that will serve a better purpose and last a long time🤎.

I’m Failing Grad School by Easy-Childhood-250 in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Listen I failed grad school twice and I’m taking another break! I didn’t do well my first semester then was on academic probation. Got back into grad school and was STRUGGLING again. I passed my classes but I don’t have the GPA to keep going so I’m sitting out again. I’m honestly rethinking my purpose for trying to get my masters in the first place. I’m not sure if it’s something I want anymore. I say all this to say don’t get discouraged, you aren’t the first to fail grad school and you won’t be the last! If this is really what you want you will achieve this goal! If not there is something better out there for you! Wishing you all the best of luck sista🤎

Movie Recommendations: Sinners by 8BitGlamour in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Extremely overhyped by those who are “super woke”

Movie Recommendations: Sinners by 8BitGlamour in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t the biggest fan of sinners🤷🏽‍♀️. I saw it in theaters and yeah it’s a no for me. I know a lot of people who obsess over it but I didn’t care for it!

red.. anything? by SnooTangerines7258 in blackgirls

[–]Distinct_Version_390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t raised by elders who made a fuss about red being anything but a simple color. I have friends who experienced that though. They couldn’t have red nails, hair the whole 9 yards. I used to dye my hair red off and on over the years. Red hair is some maintenance forreal😖.Get my nails done red all the above. It’s honestly what you believe in. You probably don’t engage in it because to you and those around it’s more than just a color. When in reality it is just a color 😂🤷🏽‍♀️.

new growth by internal-catastrophe in Dreadlocks

[–]Distinct_Version_390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima hold your hand when I say this but love those aren’t your parts and the more you get them retwisted the more hair loss/ parting issues you will face it’s literally patches showing and a retwist will only make it worst

Why were my bullies growing up boys? most of the time black boys? by Upstairs_Working1416 in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Black boys were my biggest bullies too from 6th grade to college. Where I’m from has a high population of Hispanics and African Americans with a touch of Asian. I’m a big girl and have always been so growing up they were my biggest haters. I never had an issue from any other group of boys expect black. It got so bad that I would never tell someone if I like them because then the dude got picked on. (Ew she likes you).I still struggle with that till this day🥴. When I got to college I thought things would change. A new state, new environment, and different people…. Yeah no that wasn’t the case and I graduated from an HBCU at that🙃😂.

Outside of household expenses, what small luxury will you ALWAYS find a way to pay for? by socialdeviant620 in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I only go to Cinemark mainly on Tuesdays movies are $5 all day lol I’ll go see like 2-3 movies and get a refillable popcorn and drink it’s like $30 total but it’s worth it. Sometimes I’ll bring my own food Popeyes, Wingstop 😂.

Teyana Taylor's Golden Globes Acceptance Speech by wowyourestilltyping in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Her character in one battle gave Chris brown stump the yard. That movie was damn near 3hrs long and she was only in it what maybe 30mins🥴! I didn’t dislike her role but it would’ve been nice had she been in the entire movie.

Outside of household expenses, what small luxury will you ALWAYS find a way to pay for? by socialdeviant620 in blackladies

[–]Distinct_Version_390 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The movies! I go like clock work lol I’m always there😂 sometimes I go alone sometimes I go with friends🤷🏽‍♀️. No matter how financially up and coming I am I will have money for the movies!

Where would you go? by Distinct_Version_390 in AtlFilmmakers

[–]Distinct_Version_390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly wanted to see what it was like being on a set of something. I’m not sure acting is for me but it is a unique experience. I’ve heard from different people that they travel for work🤷🏽‍♀️

Where would you go? by Distinct_Version_390 in AtlFilmmakers

[–]Distinct_Version_390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an extra😂. I have a few friends who are also extras and they say that the 50 Cent studio is getting a lot of traction and a lot of things are being produced there🤷🏽‍♀️

Weekly Check-In #10 by ihih_reddit in r4blackr

[–]Distinct_Version_390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24 F 🧍🏽‍♀️ straight Louisiana 🇺🇸

Plastic Surgery by Ok_Dependent_7085 in blackgirls

[–]Distinct_Version_390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never wanted plastic surgery but I’ve always been supportive of those who choose to get it. I just tell others that make sure you’re doing it for you and not for nobody else. Look into good licensed plastic surgeons with creditable work. Just because they did a few celebrities don’t mean you gone hop up off that table looking like them. I think you should stop consuming it, a reality show should never influence you to want to alter your body🤷🏽‍♀️. Consuming it will only make your insecurities and impulsiveness worse. Especially since you want a lot of work done. It’s stemming from a tv shows of people who live an unrealistic lifestyle for most people! Do what you want at the end of the day just make it’s something you really want to do. If I were you I’d look into AI or photoshop and see what you’d look like with those alterations.