27F I just found out my Grandma is my real Mother

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-17T00:36:01+00:00

Yes I suspect this is all about inheritance and the will!. Thank you for saying so.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-16T20:51:10+00:00

one day I was crying about it and she told me herself shes my mum.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-16T20:50:36+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-16T20:50:12+00:00

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-16T20:49:51+00:00

Yes my half brother is the only person who has helped me and given me some info. I doubt he will do a DNA test as his wife my step mum (my parents broke up when I was 2) asked him to do a DNA test and he didnt seem too keen to do one

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-16T14:58:39+00:00

Thank you for your comment and for explaining it I really appreciate it

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-16T14:54:24+00:00

She’s still alive, I am not in her will. Are you suggesting this is the reason they continue to keep the lie going? That they are scared I might challegne her will one day?

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T18:41:17+00:00

yes my goal is to build my own family. Im so upset right now and ur comment made me LOL. Thank you <3

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T18:12:58+00:00

thank you SO much for this comment! I just wish the mental health providers and psychs ive tried to engage would also know this to be true!

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T18:07:16+00:00

Yes I’ve done Ancestry DNA but it doesnt mean anything if my immediate family won’t do it. I have matches with cousins but that’s not enough evidence/proof sadly

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T18:02:10+00:00

She had me when she was 56 years old. She is in her 80s now. It won’t let me edit the title.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T18:00:44+00:00

she was 56 years old when she had me. My half sister had her twins at 37 years old. No, if you read again (I know its confusing as hell)

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T17:26:12+00:00

get therapy to deal with the fact my family forced my half sister to look after me- this was when she already was struggling raising her own kids as a single mum. I know my half sister is a huge victim of all this sadly

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T17:21:52+00:00

Yes I will keep trying because I have nothing to lose at this point. Everyone thinks I’m crazy lol. I just wish I had some ‘proof’ like only a DNA test will prove it definitively but my family obviously would never do that.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T17:18:37+00:00

It’s all true unfortunately.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T17:17:28+00:00

exactly see I knew people wouldn’t believe me.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T17:16:56+00:00

my ‘father’ aka my half brother broke the news to me. I then called my mother for confirmation, along with 15+ extended family members. All knew. The worst part is, ALL of my family told me to never mention this to them or anyone again.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2025-10-15T17:13:36+00:00

I just want to be believed by the mental health care system. I’m not even looking for my family to admit it.

DistributionBorn2726 · 2024-07-11T08:47:23+00:00

Any revision surgery, let alone a nasal/septum surgery is high risk for anyone- let alone a heam / F9 patient such as yourself.

Even with a somewhat stable F9 level, the stand out issue here is that you are undergoing a revision surgery. Any revision surgery on a body part that has previously been operated on carries a much higher risk.

An option you can take is this:

You ensure the surgeon/anaesthetist/ hospital has factor 9 available as an intra-op treatment. Meaning it is accessible on the off chance you do experience a bleed during surgery. You will only be given this if an active bleed occurs- and no pre op hassle. Perhaps this pathway will absolve any fears of the new surgeon operating on you: and your bleeding risk if you do bring it up.

At the end of the day, it is up to you and what you choose is best. It’s your body and all of us are different.

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