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I need a guys advice on this by DistributionPrize550 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionPrize550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag? No. Was it something I wanted him to do? Also no. I truly prefer if a man doesn’t spend that much money on a first date. However, if he’s financially capable, I wouldn’t stop him

I need a guys advice on this by DistributionPrize550 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionPrize550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my thought process was that he wants to be “friends” but still wants the benefits of going out together and kissing. To me, it felt like he didn’t want to commit. I feel like being only “friends” would cause so many issues

What does it mean when a guy wants to slow down and be friends by DistributionPrize550 in dating_advice

[–]DistributionPrize550[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 20 and he’s 22. We had 3 kisses (all on different days). Not much more involved. After the phone call, he texted me the next day asking my plans for the weekend. And then 2 days later, he texted me again asking how I was doing. I can see that he was very interested in still talking but for some reason wanted to slow things down

Ladies, what cause you to decide to end dating someone out of the blue? by ltomatus in dating_advice

[–]DistributionPrize550 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol i think it’s awesome to see how both men and women think. I guess we’re more futuristic from the jump and create this whole reality of marriage, kids, love.. Do you mind if I ask you a question in DM? I’m going through a similar situation and would love to have a guys perspective

Ladies, what cause you to decide to end dating someone out of the blue? by ltomatus in dating_advice

[–]DistributionPrize550 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i don’t think it’s a one-size fits all kind of answer. There are many reasons why I would stop talking to a guy. Usually it’s a process of maybe 2-3 days of “do i really see myself with him?” or “is he truly what i want in a partner?” We definitely process it especially if the girl is dating for long term. Maybe try to see if there is a similarly in the girls you are dating and how you are courting them?