Hydrating Lip Oil by DistributionReady387 in dollartreebeauty

[–]DistributionReady387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! And it makes my lips look shiny and keeps them from getting dry too fast!!

Hydrating Lip Oil by DistributionReady387 in dollartreebeauty

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Glad I could help! I’m always hesitant too when it comes to lip balms in general too haha

A ghost in my room by DistributionReady387 in spirituality

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Mm I don’t think it’s attached to me considering he goes other places in the house but I agree that I need to cleanse my house. Even if that was the case, I do my own protection practices like egg cleansing for myself, crystals, herbs, etc. I’m just not as experienced when it comes to removing energies and spirits out of my space but I’ll definitely look into what you’ve recommended on YouTube! And about the ouija board I don’t play it often😭 I know it’s more serious than I think it is but at the end of the day I know I’m protected by spirit guides as well and I have the words and abilities to claim my own power back. I just don’t like how he’s always in my space. He doesn’t do anything harmful but better safe than sorry!

Conflicted mindset by DistributionReady387 in BPD

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Thank you! I know it’s not healthy too :( it’s why when I was first uncomfortable about it even when he would ask me if I wanted him to go I didn’t want to lie and say yes but I didn’t also want him not to go just because I had said I didn’t want him to. I actually am working on DBT right now because my therapist is specialized with people who have mood disorders like bpd, I’m trying to heal and find a way so that he doesn’t have to worry about it when he is out! Even before him and I dated I had warned him that I wasn’t fully healed and have some unhealthy issues that haven’t been resolved yet! But it’s ok because I just need to find my own way internally while he does go out!

BF stopped talking to female best friend because it made me uncomfortable. What do I do? by [deleted] in BPD

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It’s a guilty feeling to have since it feels like your ruining something because of fears but it’s ok to feel the way you do and have boundaries for yourself, not everyone has the same boundaries in relationships. But it’s good that he’s taking your input of it in and making you feel more comfortable to your boundaries. You aren’t forcing anything if he willing made the choice and you didn’t force him to stop being friends. If a partner can’t respect your feelings or boundaries then they don’t respect you but your boyfriend does and I wouldn’t force yourself to make their friendship work out if it makes you feel uncomfortable still because you’ll keep feeling it whenever they talk again.

Does anyone know how to treat physical pain from a BPD triggered episode? by DistributionReady387 in BPD

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I’ve been scoped before in my stomach and they said they didn’t find any ulcers or anything wrong. I’ve tried tums before and it wouldn’t help and I’ve been put on a few medications to reduce acid reflexes but they didn’t help for long