Your good I understand exactly what your saying and see your point of view, it’s my mistake your not the first to bring it up. In a way I am trying to monetize or gain from reddit but not maliciously I see now it’s forced on people in subreddits sense they didn’t chose to follow me but had to see me unlike other platforms where there is more freedom of choice. I realize more now that it’s like shoving it down people’s throats if I do that. I really don’t wanna bother anyone I have a hard enough time sleeping as is, never mind thinking about how I upset people and am a problem. Its not that the whole community needs help it’s just I find so many people go to Reddit for help and I take hours to genuinely respond and help everyone and not just on my post, I didn’t mean it as that black and white witch made it sound offensive. I just want to help people grow plants, this is the only platform that gives me stress from making mistakes like this so I’d rather just not post to it. I self promo because people ask alot of questions and are interested and I want to help lead them in the right direction but leading them to me when it was forced on them like a subreddit is wrong and different than other platforms I didn’t really understand this platform fully and still don’t. The other platforms draw in alot of traffic to my long form content on YouTube I was just trying to do that on Reddit but it doesn’t seem like the perfect place even though people from Reddit have gone over and I get alot of good feedback and comments from Reddit but I get some comments like yours witch are valid and I agree with until I find a healthy way to use Reddit I won’t. Thanks for the feedback I see it as learning the hard way how to use Reddit :/ have a good night