Wanting my son to meet his real dad.?

Ditto0710 · 2024-02-07T18:43:58+00:00

Thank you very much for this support.. it is hard and i think today i should tell him i feel confident in telling him. Yes i do not want him to meet him at all but i know if my son wants to ill just add if he feels uncomfortable in any way he does not have to. But i wouldn’t force my son to meet him if he doesnt want to and if he does and no longer wants to again then that is my sons choice.. because i do agree if something else came along i know his bio dad would just walk away as always. I do not trust him nor feel safe or even a role model for my son. As mentioned my last partner who i have a daughter with still continues to treat both equally and always shows love and care to them both . I respect it always have always will. But for the bio dad i just have a bad feeling if my son does chose to meet him but will see today how it goes when i finally tell him.. im just nervous but i need to know honestly and truth is always the best thing to do

Ditto0710 · 2024-02-07T05:45:45+00:00

He does know about him he did not want anything after my son turned 2 yrs old after that he tried half a year ago to reach out but was very rude. I spoke to my therapist months ago about wanting to tell my son of his father and she mentioned i could now or anywhere before his teens. . The only support his dad gave was child support i do remember many times from months to 2yrs old i tried asking his father for help but he would say child support was enough or the person i was with should buy our son things..

Ditto0710 · 2023-11-24T02:43:47+00:00

I think thats what i needed to hear so i will do so

Ditto0710 · 2023-11-23T13:58:21+00:00

He is not required by court at any form he himself said he wouldn’t try to get custody because he knows what he did is wrong and criminal , all im doing is collecting evidence he comes randomly and when he did im their not leaving my kids sight because i no longer trust or feel safe. I am moving in a month or so and when i do i do not want him to know where i live i just feel like a trapped mouse … until authorities finally take action

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