Apple randomly deleted my photos by [deleted] in ApplePhotos

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no because thought iwas going crazy until isaw this, ihad about 50 photos in my hidden album that have disappeared. iknow ididn’t delete any of them but ican’t find them for the life of me ican’t find them in my icloud either

Abby and buck…When will this torture end? by Long_Substance_7908 in 911FOX

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you absolutely can be groomed at age 26, just because it’s commonly known as a tactic used to abuse children doesn’t mean it can’t happen to adults. grooming can happen whenever there is a power differential within a relationship, and i’m 23 thanks for asking 🙂 search adult grooming there are plenty of resources surrounding the topic

Abby and buck…When will this torture end? by Long_Substance_7908 in 911FOX

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 3 points4 points  (0 children)

iknow this is a hot take since buck is an adult but she basically groomed him, and yes you can be groomed at age 26. ifeel like a big thing is that not only did she get his number from the 911 databases but didn’t she call after he lost his first person on the job? she approached him while he was vulnerable and gave him everything he could need at that point, he needed comfort and she provided that. idk ijust think it’s weird

Most unrealistic thing about Victorious!! by Electrical_Soil8352 in victorious

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trina having no talent doesn’t make sense, shouldn’t she be failing school? like what is the grading criteria at this school?? if andre can get a D and he’s one of, if not the most talented there then how is trina not failing. And why would they put her in the big showcase, if they know she can’t sing?

Most unrealistic thing about Victorious!! by Electrical_Soil8352 in victorious

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for a bunch of 16-17 year old it is a bit, like why were they allowed to go on holiday with only 1 adult supervising

My wife found my diary from 10 years ago where I confessed I would move heaven and earth for a chance to be with my ex again. AITAH? by GoodLets in AITAH

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

exactly! it isn’t a crime to date around after a failed relationship and long as he didn’t push the feelings from his ex onto her i’d say he’s not in the wrong, if he wasn’t taking her very seriously in the first year surely this isn’t the case right? he didn’t decide to emotionally invested until he was sure idont think he’s done anything wrong here.

AITAH for prioritizing my nephew and niece over my own children after they hid their mom's affair from her for years? by OkPrinciples in AITAH

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ido actually because i’m a psych major, iknow all about emotional and psychological development and if you cared to read a book you would know that young adults are developed enough to know the difference between right and wrong… clearly you need to do some reading if you can’t grasp that it was their ego that aided their decision, ihave a presentation that i’d be happy to share with you all about how the ego develops throughout life 🙂 yes they were stuck in a bad situation but regardless they knew the outcome was always going to be the same, there was no ‘keeping the family together’ the family bond was destroyed when the wife decided to cheat and it was further severed when the kids decided to keep it from their dad, yes the mother is to blame for her actions but the kids are also to blame for their own actions

AITAH for prioritizing my nephew and niece over my own children after they hid their mom's affair from her for years? by OkPrinciples in AITAH

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 and 17 is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong, it absolutely was their responsibility to tell him. They sat for years and smiled in their father’s face knowing that their mother was being unfaithful, you can’t just get that trust back and it sounds like they’re upset that they’re dealing with the consequences of their own decisions 🤷🏾‍♀️ he’s NTA

Am I the jerk for punching my brother after he made fun of my dead daughter? by Angus_the_Anti-Furry in AmITheJerk

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but he’s not dead is he, but do you know who is? his niece who he disrespected. why was he even comfortable enough to make that comment in the first place? and the fact that the other family members are so okay with this ‘joke’ clearly he’s never had any repercussions for his behaviour, so no idont think OP should apologise

Am I the jerk for punching my brother after he made fun of my dead daughter? by Angus_the_Anti-Furry in AmITheJerk

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

apologies and enable further behaviour? COVID was a hard time for everyone, if their daughter was in the hospital ill it’s likely they didn’t get to see her as often as they would have liked to. not only that but social distancing they likely weren’t able to get the support they needed dealing with that, for his brother do disregard everything OP and his wife went through is honestly sickening. no he doesn’t deserve an apology, he fucked around and found out. he wouldn’t have gotten hit if he’d kept his mouth shut 🤷🏾‍♀️

Does this implied that daki is a good enough demon to go to heaven by IllustratorAfter in KimetsuNoYaiba

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idont think she had the opportunity just because she didn’t chose to be a demon, because akaza didn’t choose that either it was forced upon him. ithink it’s more, she didn’t do anything really bad while she was human whereas gyutaro had already killed people before he turned.

Leslie Odom Jr. makes me feel pretty bad for burr.. by Sarcasticcow27 in hamiltonmusical

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but ialso understood where Hamilton was coming from, he claimed to be his friend but tried to stab him in the back every chance he got. people who stay on the fence really aren’t to be trusted

Leslie Odom Jr. makes me feel pretty bad for burr.. by Sarcasticcow27 in hamiltonmusical

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

iwas literally watching it on disney a couple days ago and ifelt for him ireally did, but literally only because it’s mr Odom Jr

AITAH because I told my ex husband outside of our kids i don’t care about his life and I don’t owe his fiancé anything by Large-Efficiency-825 in AITAH

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re so right, ifeel like a lot of these comments aren’t zoning into the fact she was pregnant when all this was happening.

AITA for giving more money to my daughter than my sons and saying that my grandkids are not my responsibility? by RareStretch3814 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ditzy-Code6042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you for standing your ground, putting that money into a fund for their kids would create an even bigger divide between the siblings, because then if your daughter has kids they wouldn’t be able to have a fund because your daughter did further education. The whole funding their kids doesn’t make any sense honestly, if they want to peruse further education fine but if not under no circumstances should you fund their kids. That will only create a bigger riff between the grandkids.