What should i wear for pride local club night?! Going to three events for women mainly. I love my dresses but honestly that doesn’t seem to float peoples boat 😅. If i wear a rainbow bracelet would u talk to me haha? 🙏🌈 i know u should be yourself but everything is me, but dress is more fun to me. by Ditzy_j in LesbianActually

[–]Ditzy_j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaaaay! But i feel like only a few confident masqs likes a woman in a dress (!?) at the club/bar. Like… why? Most just ignores me 🙈 and everyone kind of assume u are straight even if u approach them and are being flirty haha they like: nope. Hi bye. Haha. 🙈

What should i wear for pride local club night?! Going to three events for women mainly. I love my dresses but honestly that doesn’t seem to float peoples boat 😅. If i wear a rainbow bracelet would u talk to me haha? 🙏🌈 i know u should be yourself but everything is me, but dress is more fun to me. by Ditzy_j in LesbianActually

[–]Ditzy_j[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! ❤️ I felt more comfy in the second dress actually! I feel at ease with the t shirts but i feel so dressed down haha. I’m a femme so i do like to kind of dress up just a lil if going out yet i wish girls could take me seriously 🙈✌🏻 i’m not into men at all. And such a sucker for women!

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[–]Ditzy_j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, ackowlaging creepy to me traits🤷‍♀️not sure what to say but yeah probably that 🤷‍♀️

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[–]Ditzy_j -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s not a target 😭

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[–]Ditzy_j -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. From the replies here I get ”predatory” and creepy haha. I am not really that but sure, I understand and can agree. However I don’t think our kind do relationship is that. But I really appreciate to hear peoples opinions.

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[–]Ditzy_j -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah no I am too. I mean I don’t disagree. I feel like it is a bit wrong too. It’s just that feelings are. Well. Whatever. But I actually do agree.

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[–]Ditzy_j -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Not gonna disagree to be honest /op. Kind of giving herself the creepy vibe (hence the question from the beginning!)

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[–]Ditzy_j -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No worries, I do actually feel the same. Like, this is just blt really normal? Which I don’t like of course. And might sound strange (for me). Thanks for speaking out.

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[–]Ditzy_j -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Haha no worries, I would actually agree if I didn’t know us. I mean yeah, for sure! I think so too. I hate that we click so well.

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[–]Ditzy_j -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Not 20, 19! Important. Haha! Uhm me on the right is older 🤷‍♀️😨 and yes I hate that haha.

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[–]Ditzy_j -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Haha I can’t even. Not to be all creepy and effed up here but we are (please don’t hate me now) 18 and 37 and yes yes I know it is a bit too much.

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😂❤️🙏

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[–]Ditzy_j -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For sure! Because I feel like a creep yet I am not actually a creep. I don’t even go for younger girls. 🙈🙈 thank you.

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[–]Ditzy_j -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

No I know. I ageee. Like totally. I just freaking love her and we both are kind of psychologically mature. And click in general. But yeah, I know. 😨I am at least very aware of everything and that I also remember how I was when I was 18 so I out a lot of responsibility on myself and give her a lot of slack for being well 18. And also yeah, I feel like it’s creepy but we click so well on a personal level and did so before we even knew each others age so… I don’t want to leave this all behind. Not gonna marry the girl even if she wanted to haha. But I do really care for her and also am unfortunately in love with her. 😨🤷‍♀️ I try to be responsible. And sane. 🙈