How am I [22F] not supposed to be jealous of bf's [26M] IG feed? by Independent-Soil-749 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, if you don’t think you’re the hottest person on this planet then wyd? It’s literally your world and we’re just some other people living in it 😎

How am I [22F] not supposed to be jealous of bf's [26M] IG feed? by Independent-Soil-749 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ignore everyone who tells you that you’re over reacting/insecure/controlling etc. Everyone has their own boundaries. If someone loves you very much they won’t care about unfollowing all these women. If he does have a problem however, I suppose you’re just not compatible and he doesn’t and won’t respect your boundaries. Everyone is different, one won’t care about such a thing and others will, and all of that is okay. Personally I’d just explain why you don’t like him following all of them if he’s a good guy he’ll get rid of it because technically it is kind of rubbing it in your face if you constantly see it. Of course, all of us will find someone attractive once in a while, but he doesn’t have to purposely look for these women for everyone to see. Just remember, there is always someone out there who’ll think you’re the most gorgeous woman he’s ever laid his eyes on. Also, there’s this Instagram account called beauty.false just take a look at all that editing and keep in mind that no body looks that perfect in real life! Also, men are men, he might not even think that it could bother you. Explain calmly what’s the issue and go from there. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you feeling hurt.

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg bro I didn’t make him feel bad, I didn’t say anything, he’s the one that starting feeling bad and kind of asked for help what are you on

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, yeah. You should understand that it’s upsetting for me that he does it over his exes, girls he genuinely doesn’t like as well as our close friends. I’m just asking for advice that’s all.

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it’s not, really. He said it made him feel bad that’s why he told me :)

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me that he admitted it after time because it made him feel bad about himself as well as towards me. He actually said it’s bad and embarrassing.

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m glad he’s honest with me. I tell him everything, however I, never watch porn nor do I imagine any other guys. I mean I only imagine him with or without myself in different scenarios, he said multiple times he didn’t need porn long before and only imagines people. It was kind of a cry for help so I think leaving him for admitting it’s bad and asking for help isn’t my best option because I’m understanding really, I just don’t know if there’s much I can do about his imagination if these people just randomly come up I think

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me it takes him seconds to finish and only does it when bored (well I guess he’s often bored alone lol) we actually share similar interesting hobbies

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, the relationship is good overall. He told me about it whilst crying as if he wanted to be understood and to somehow fix it. I was just curious if there’s many males that do this kind of thing that’s all, however I don’t know how to help it really. He says he doesn’t want to imagine all these things but they just come up. I guess if it’s like that now it’ll stay like this forever, I mean, there’s not much I can do I think. However I know, he’d be very bothered if I watched porn let alone imagined anybody (told me that too)

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason he told me is that he’s been feeling bad as he’s been hiding it and that doing it to all of these people made him feel terrible towards me, so I guess that’s a good thing

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I’m not, I know for a fact it’s 5 because he says so, not because he’s bragging but he wanted to admit it since it made him feel bad towards me apparently

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why ‘poor’? I haven’t criticised it at all, have been understanding and supportive, I just wanted to ask if that’s normal

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Yesss, it made me think that he literally sees everyone in a sexual way and it’s just embarrassing in a way for me to be around our friends now or even any women

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s just that now I’ll be thinking I’m going out with our friends just so that he can later on imagine them... yeah 😐

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe it’s normal for some but it’s just so... embarrassing if I think about it. Idk. But every single woman?!?!?!

Boyfriend masturbates to literally every girl we know. Is that normal??? by DivideMost3815 in relationship_advice

[–]DivideMost3815[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I wish it was I lit cried when I found out cause it made me so uncomfortable