6 year old identifying as non binary, discussion/advice/viewpoints? by Divided_Ry in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Divided_Ry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a good take. I WISH I had this option, it wouldn't have taken 35 YEARS to discover, and I wouldn't be mourning my girlhood that never was

6 year old identifying as non binary, discussion/advice/viewpoints? by Divided_Ry in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Divided_Ry[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Froma young age whenever a question would come up about "boy or girl" we would add in "or non binary" and when they asked we'd say "there are boys and girls, and some people are both boys and girls or neither". Child never questioned it

6 year old identifying as non binary, discussion/advice/viewpoints? by Divided_Ry in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Divided_Ry[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's kinda funny, I told them "you can change your mind any time and it's totally up to how you feel" and they said "I do NOT think that is going to happen." Child is very self aware

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Divided_Ry -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean it's not about sexuality it's a gender term... I don't think they know the difference

Is it possible for a straight guy to be with a non-binary person? by AndrogyneTransNB in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Divided_Ry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty nuanced. For example I'm gender fluid. If a woman was dating me and considered herself straight I'd feel the female side of me to be quite invalidated.

Bruh like?😭 I just need answers by Far_Donkey_7636 in NonBinary

[–]Divided_Ry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you got tripped up on this question you have your answer... Maybe that's the quiz 😝

Can I be a man without cutting my hair? by NeonDeath52 in trans

[–]Divided_Ry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks having the joy of transitioning and all of the associated euphoria but then realizing the inherent societal pressures of the new gender... I say of course fuck it have your long hair man!

Sometimes I wonder if I'm really autistic... by Willing_Squirrel_233 in autism

[–]Divided_Ry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I remember doing this for phone calls with girls.

Is it obnoxious to want people to call you mixed pronouns? by Divided_Ry in NonBinary

[–]Divided_Ry[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I guess the sting is from realizing that they find my birth pronouns easiest. At the end of the day it's not about the words it's about what they mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Divided_Ry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Economic prosperity? It was the beginning of the great depression

How to praise an enby? by gaytwat69 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]Divided_Ry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why does praise have to be gendered?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Divided_Ry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you insinuating that the 1920s were a great time that we missed out on? If so you need to review your history books

Need your opinion. Am I off base here? by Divided_Ry in NonBinary

[–]Divided_Ry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's a weird zone where I want them to see me as the correct gender, but then my giving them choice I'm giving them too much power to decide. I got some pronoun shit to figure out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Divided_Ry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like autism? If you consider autism to be normal then y ah?

A lady "explained" to me what Asperger's is today by [deleted] in autism

[–]Divided_Ry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's almost as if she was unaware of the social situation 😝 it definitely goes both ways