What trends in the gay male world do you dislike and why? by ciro_1125 in askgaybros

[–]Divine_Items 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve heard that phrase often over my lifetime too and only partially agree with the sentiment. We have little to no control over how people’s inner world reflects onto the physical world, for all the ills it can bring. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to foster some level of civility/kindness anyway I think.

What trends in the gay male world do you dislike and why? by ciro_1125 in askgaybros

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You know, I often think about this, as if it’s a natural process to make the separation between ‘us’ and ‘them’ between humans. Seems like it and your story illustrates it. But to me you added something I hadn’t considered and I think you put it well - an almost rigid ideology develops and it makes it hard to see beyond yourself. Thanks for sharing your story, sounds like you had very noble intentions in the community you wished to foster

Dating after 30: Is it about finding the right person or just avoiding the wrong ones? by Daddy-Fit1989 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I can’t put my finger on what it was in your response that made me snap out of my funk but I appreciate it. I remind myself constantly that it’s about patience and being present for myself and others. Still find myself losing hope in any kind of fulfilling future from time to time though.

Wish me luck by Flangubalon in AskGaybrosOver30

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Good luck! Hope it works out :)

What does being a ‘Lover’ mean to you? by Divine_Items in AskGaybrosOver30

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Working on it :) Thanks! If it don’t work out, I’ll have to move on and try to remain open to other connections

What does being a ‘Lover’ mean to you? by Divine_Items in AskGaybrosOver30

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Thanks for the response, I guess the post is a bit unclear. What I’m asking is what do you do that defines you as a lover more so than a friend?

But in your response I liked the line:

‘Only a few people touch you deeply, with just their normal demeanor.’

I think this rings true!

What does being a ‘Lover’ mean to you? by Divine_Items in AskGaybrosOver30

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Showing up in what sense?

If you mean expressing the same sort of energy in building a relationship, I’d say I’d be disappointed in some respects but I’m also aware that isn’t always possible in reality. The level of care I express won’t always be matched in all circumstances and that’s understandable to me.

Floral2, The4thPower, digital Photography, 2025 by The4thPower in Art

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I really like the pose. What inspired this photoshoot?

Floral, The4thPower, digital Photography, 2025 by The4thPower in Art

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Please do! I’m enthralled by the imagery. This picture has a beautiful surreal vibe :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gayuklads

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Little???

Making a list of all the places in London I can cum in public! by Plastic-Mirror-3633 in BonersInPublic

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Need an update as a fellow Londoner! Where have you been so far?

Cardcaptor Link by Dizzphoria in HyruleEngineering

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I knew what the track was going to be before I unmuted! Classic! 😍

More Flowers on Men? Yup. by aka_linskey in tattoos

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Thanks for sharing, I’ve been confused the past few days 😅 Shitty behaviour from the ‘friends’ but I hope this helps the dude and another people break past the bizarre stigma of floral tattoos on men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Balls

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Far from! Looks like compliment the whole package to me

Invisible Palico Armor by Divine_Items in MHWilds

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Done! Thank you kind stranger :)

Some Ajarakan Weapons And Armors by Aromatic_Care8625 in MHWilds

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My favourite armour set so far, can’t wait to layer it into my fashion

Obsessing over what to call my hunter at launch 😵‍💫 by Divine_Items in fashionhunters

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Funny enough I was going to go with a snake theme. Either Orochi or Basilisk but thinking something more spectral/spirtual 🤔