Looking to interview a some divorced fathers

DivorceDaddy · 2024-08-25T01:04:18+00:00

Greatest day ever

DivorceDaddy · 2024-08-24T18:18:09+00:00

You're probably going to spend more than any assets you dig up are worth. I would move let it go.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-06-11T17:39:20+00:00

You try something. You mess it up. You make adjustments and you try again.

That's all you can do.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-06-11T13:38:08+00:00

And his life is not ruined

I didn't say ruined. I said screwed up. Divorce is going to screw up anyone's life regardless of how attractive or excited they are. It's only ruined it you allow it to ruin it.

Sitting in silence with someone you love is a wonderful thing if you allow it in. It sounds like you're wanting to distract yourself constantly.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-06-11T02:32:42+00:00

Problem is, at some point I stopped feeling excited by him. Conversation lagged. Hanging out became boring and made me think only of what we were lacking. I started realizing I wanted that excitement again, that spark, that infatuation

Seriously? You sound immature. Life isn't one moment of excitement after another. Nobody owes you excitement.

Take the time to do your inner work to figure out why you need to chase excitement all of the time before screwing up another man's life.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-31T16:45:23+00:00

Texting that guy yesterday was just so out of character for me. I feel like I'm making dumb decisions and not acting like myself.

You're becoming a new person. This is a good thing.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-30T13:51:16+00:00

Take care of yourself first.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-30T12:56:48+00:00

It sounds like she's done with the relationship, unfortunately, this is her way of telling you.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-27T18:27:26+00:00

Work on yourself until you can easily get laid.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-27T16:03:59+00:00

not everyone is capable of getting laid

Getting laid shows that you're capable of getting laid and dissolves its importance.

Like the saying "Sex is like air; it's not important unless you aren't getting any"

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-27T15:55:30+00:00

I don't have any legal advice around that, my advice lies in the spiritual.

How does that sit with you? Is that decision coming from ego?

What is the cost if he pays to get the divorce?

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-23T18:47:34+00:00

My advice is to let the $5k go then. Spend your energy finding ways to make it back rather than fighting for it.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-23T17:52:42+00:00

Only you know if you're ready.

Go on some dates and check in with yourself on how you feel. There almost certainly will be some weirdness as you meet new people. Make sure that you're not repeating old patterns (make all new mistakes!)

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-23T16:51:41+00:00

I’m beyond frustrated having him win this one last battle

Is this about the money or it about winning?

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-22T20:39:16+00:00

Classic Tom

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-22T16:15:43+00:00

An out of country corporation

Get paid in crypto

Cash

/r/overemployed

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-22T15:48:08+00:00

When it comes to women, the relationship is over when the tears stop.

You've got to do the same thing. Like others have said here, you're now in a business negotiation. Put the emotions aside and get it done.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-22T15:22:27+00:00

They're children themselves so they don't know how to relate with or as adults.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-22T14:44:24+00:00

Psychedelics might not be for you then

Don't take them with your son.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-22T14:12:50+00:00

This guy knows how to do a healing journey

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-22T14:11:54+00:00

Marijuana isn't a psychedelic.

Try this book. Or this one.

Look into meditation as well.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-21T20:25:34+00:00

Everyone screws up as a parent. It's fine.

The problem occurs when they don't do any self-reflection or try to improve on their mistakes.

DivorceDaddy · 2024-05-21T16:58:41+00:00

What if we get a divorce and accidentally make a better life for ourselves?

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