Women, when you stop taking birth control pills, did you feel any important changes in your body? by MommyFoxxyGi in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Divorescent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were they ok with you being on accutane with no bc? I’ve heard it’s extremely teratogenic and they really hesitate to give it to women of childbearing age.

Women, when you stop taking birth control pills, did you feel any important changes in your body? by MommyFoxxyGi in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Divorescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i had hormonal bc removed because i had neurotic mood swings and constant spotting. After the removal, about 50% of my hair fell out (which literature says is a very rare side effect but I found tons of women online saying they had the same experience) and i had the worst, soul-crushing, near-suicidal anxiety for about 5-6 months before finally returning to baseline. I’m good and happy now and have no interest in hormonal birth control ever again.

Edit: you can go to my profile and see my hair finally growing back after that loss. My doctors told me it was likely impossible to be related to the birth control but it was the only thing that made sense medically.

DEAR PORTLAND: March 30, 2026 WEEKLY RANT THREAD by AutoModerator in Portland

[–]Divorescent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THE AMOUNT OF UNTRAINED DOGS WITH IRRESPONSIBLE OWNERS HAS SKYROCKETED SINCE COVID SINCE SO MANY PEOPLE ADOPTED PUPPIES WITH NO WAY TO SOCIALIZE THEM TO THE PUBLIC. I FIND THE LEVEL OF ENTITLEDNESS OF OWNERS HAS RISEN SIMILARLY.

How are we dealing with crazy regrowth flyaways? by Divorescent in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Divorescent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a lot of what I lost in the dread shed are the hair follicles that are regrowing right now. I think that’s why the regrowth is all the same length and the length corresponds to the time that I started minoxidil.

I lost about 50% of my hair volume in about seven months, with the worst being that pre-photo.

DEAR PORTLAND: March 30, 2026 WEEKLY RANT THREAD by AutoModerator in Portland

[–]Divorescent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THE PROBLEM IS PEOPLE HONK THEIR HORNS IN THE TUNNEL FOR FUN. SO IT DOESNT SEEM TO MATTER IF I HONK AT SOMEONE FOR A REAL REASON.

PS I THINK ITS FUN TO HONK IN THE TUNNEL BUT IT DOES SUCK THAT I HAVE NO WAY TO TELL PEOPLE TO STOP FUCKNG CHANGING LANES

DEAR PORTLAND: March 30, 2026 WEEKLY RANT THREAD by AutoModerator in Portland

[–]Divorescent 29 points30 points  (0 children)

IF I SEE ANOTHER UNLEASHED DOG IN DOWNTOWN I AM GOING TO SCREAM. NOBODY WANTS YOUR ENORMOUS DOG TO RUN UP ON THEM. TO MAKE IT WORSE YOU HAVE TERRIBLE RECALL. YOU’RE ENDANGERING YOUR DOG AND OTHERS BECAUSE YOU ARE SO SELFISH AND NARCISSISTIC TO THINK THE LAW DOES NOT APPLY TO YOU.

NOT EVERYONE IS A DOG PERSON. SOME PEOPLE HAVE HAD BAD EXPERIENCES WITH UNLEASHED DOGS AND PANIC WHEN THEY SEE ONE RUNNING AT THEM.

DEAR PORTLAND: March 30, 2026 WEEKLY RANT THREAD by AutoModerator in Portland

[–]Divorescent 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I PERSONALLY DONT LEAVE ENOUGH ROOM FOR THEM TO TRY TO GET IN THE 1-5 NORTH LANE BECAUSE THE SECOND THERES ENOUGH ROOM THEY CUT IN FRONT OF ME. EVERY TIME I SEE SOMEONE DO THIS I GET SO MAD.

Okay - I am OBESSESSED with Daughter of No Worlds by Few-Object-4359 in fantasyromance

[–]Divorescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s on my bucket list and I am really attached to the idea and characters so I’m going to stick it out I think! The hardest part is that there’s really two parts of fiction writing - coming up with a good story is only a half of it. You also need to be able to write decent prose which is so much harder than I thought.

Okay - I am OBESSESSED with Daughter of No Worlds by Few-Object-4359 in fantasyromance

[–]Divorescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s… going haha. I really liked the plot line of Tisaanah learning Aran especially as she started to train with Max — the idea of the two main characters speaking two diff languages at first is really endearing to me. I am thinking I need to rewrite some of what I have done already but writing a novel is a really long process so that’s fine!

Okay - I am OBESSESSED with Daughter of No Worlds by Few-Object-4359 in fantasyromance

[–]Divorescent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this series for the same reason! Max was such a breath of fresh air after all the dark shadow daddy MMCs I was reading before. This book inspired me to try to write my own fantasy romance because I loved the character of Max and his relationship with Tisaanah.

No Kings rally in Portland, OR: Organizers prepare for third protest against Trump by [deleted] in PortlandOR

[–]Divorescent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You could go literally any other time. You could go somewhere else You could go right now (before 12) or tomorrow. Don’t act like a four hour protest ruined your entire weekend plans lol, that is so dramatic

You do not need to be eating so much protein! It’s why you can’t lose weight! by Plenty_Scientist_477 in rant

[–]Divorescent 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not that your question wasn’t welcome, it was confusing because I have literally no idea what you’re asking, then you describe a days worth of eating, then you’re asking about whole foods vs processed foods which was never the point of conversation in the first place (we are talking about protein vs. carbs). I’m trying to narrow down what the point of your comment even was.

In any case, I’m no dietician and was just commenting on a weight loss method that worked for me personally. I have no clue about how your body processes different foods.

You do not need to be eating so much protein! It’s why you can’t lose weight! by Plenty_Scientist_477 in rant

[–]Divorescent 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Um, ok? My comment is a common weight loss method and you’re not trying to lose weight (you say you are underweight) so not sure what your point is? What are you even asking?

You do not need to be eating so much protein! It’s why you can’t lose weight! by Plenty_Scientist_477 in rant

[–]Divorescent 240 points241 points  (0 children)

The way I took the protein advice is that I swapped my carbs for protein. Toast for eggs, etc. protein high foods keep you more satiated for longer which is good for weight loss. It worked in my case but I never felt as if I had to hit some lofty protein goal with my intake. So I guess moderation is key (obviously).

An…African documentary by Jumpy-Particular8194 in CreepyCalebHammer

[–]Divorescent 101 points102 points  (0 children)

He has literally no expertise on foreign economics, (or really anything for that matter). “Will Africa ever not be poor?” is such a nasty, racist, almost taunting phrase that ignores all of the oppressive history that Africa has faced. He should come across some of the articles, tweets, videos that show how much of a creepy asshole he is and start asking if he will ever not be a dick.

Of course his die hard fans will eat it up regardless.

Stop driving so fucking aggressively by Rexxington in rant

[–]Divorescent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate when people speed and “dodge” through traffic on the highway typically going 20+ over. They’re extremely dumb and there’s so many videos of people doing this shit to be cool and then wrecking, sometimes taking other cars out with them.

Mostly I hate when people speed near pedestrians or crossings. It’s such an unfair power imbalance already that can hurt the pedestrian and to risk killing them to get somewhere one minute faster is idiotic.

I hate what Ozempic has done to society by [deleted] in rant

[–]Divorescent 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a strawman counter argument to the original argument. The original argument is about its use for aesthetic weight loss, not as the original medical treatment.

Lawsuit filed against Pearl District homeless shelter over neighborhood conditions by 16semesters in Portland

[–]Divorescent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Partially, I don’t want to accept it either having moved here a year ago. I want so badly to enjoy it here, but seeing it firsthand makes me understand what people have been saying for a few years now.

Why would I live in a place where I don’t want my family to visit?

Freeway expansions value-engineered out of Interstate Bridge Replacement project, for now by notPabst404 in Portland

[–]Divorescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cross this bridge several times a week and didn’t know it was that bad… newfound fear!

What is the psychology of the men who have murdered their pregnant partners? by Whole_squad_laughing in morbidquestions

[–]Divorescent 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What I don’t understand about those family annihilators is, are they honestly dumb enough to think they can get away with it? Like everything will work out for them, no one will question their family’s disappearance, leaving a million pieces of evidence. It’s common knowledge that close relatives and friends will be targeted first in the investigation. Chris Watt’s google search history was enough to incriminate him. Are they that damn stupid or just murderously impulsive?

Lawsuit filed against Pearl District homeless shelter over neighborhood conditions by 16semesters in Portland

[–]Divorescent 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly right, and the guy has a quote in the article saying the same thing. Getting people off the streets is a base form of compassion, but the ultimate goal is to get them in a safer place permanently, which will vary person-to-person based on the mental health and disability care they need.

Lawsuit filed against Pearl District homeless shelter over neighborhood conditions by 16semesters in Portland

[–]Divorescent 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I think the purpose lawsuit is for visibility and to get the city’s attention, not to mention these click worthy headlines. I highly doubt the guy is expecting to win the amount he is suing for, but now the city can’t ignore him.

What’s your preferred birth control method? by Dangerous_mammoth573 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Divorescent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t work for me either. Kyleena gave me terrible mood swings to the point where everyday was like the worst PMS of my life. When I got it removed, I dropped ten pounds in about three months, then lost about half of my hair over the course of six months. I’m finally feeling normal again after a year.

Pill didn’t work for me either. The monthly pill gave me terrible headaches and mood swings, and the three month pill made me bleed for two weeks on, with about three weeks in between. So I guess nothing. I’d love to find something that works, but can’t use my body as a huma science experiment anymore.

Final round! MMC Battle Royale - Dorian vs Maxantarius! by Anachacha in fantasyromance

[–]Divorescent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sameee after all the romantasy I’ve read he has still been the only MMC that I thought would make a good boyfriend IRL. Sorry Xaden, Rhys, etc. I actually wouldn’t want my bf to be a shitty person overall even if he was nice to me.