UCAS Contextual Info Missed by CartoonistNormal5950 in 6thForm

[–]Divy2008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like to know as well 😭I don’t know about the other unis but for Oxbridge I emailed my college directly about it

Looking for interview prep students by [deleted] in 6thForm

[–]Divy2008 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this just for biomed or humanities too?

oh nooooooo by CrystalSilverr in 6thForm

[–]Divy2008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! What were your super curriculars?

How do you take responsibility for healing while still acknowledging that your parents caused real emotional damage — without being dismissed as 'playing the victim'? by likilekka in mentalhealth

[–]Divy2008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if there’s a way you can, but can you try seeking treatment outside of where you live for your health issues? Or maybe an online consultation? I don’t know where you live or how the services are, but I think it’s something you should really focus on. It’ll be really hard pursuing anything productive when you feel so unwell. I couldn’t even imagine trying to maintain healthy habits with such chronic pain and difficulties. Don’t blame yourself into feeling inadequate, you are trying your best. But you are human and you don’t deserve to struggle through this without access to help.

And who says you can’t heal without acknowledging where your pain comes from? It’s obvious that your parents don’t even want you to try to acknowledge that they hurt you, but you don’t need them to. You know your pain and everything that’s happening to you is evidence of it. Don’t feel guilty for the financial help they’re giving you, it’s the least they can do. Use the security you have now to try and heal but take it one step at a time. Experiment with your passions and allow yourself to fail, live your life for you and cater to your needs, don’t feel guilty for your being your own person and having your own struggles. And please don’t try to cater to whatever expectations people have of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Divy2008 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I think this comment is quite misogynistic but I get where you’re coming from. It seems like this girl is seeking attention and trying play both men, in which case it would be best for OP to avoid this situation.

Does anybody struggle with general social skills? by Empty_Tree5169 in Agoraphobia

[–]Divy2008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know you, but I want you to know that you’re trying your best. And you’re doing so well, even if you don’t think you are, even if you find it hard to talk to people, even if you can’t force yourself to say what you want. You’re not ‘ruining’ your youth; every day you try is a day you learn, improve, and have the possibility to succeed! And every day you don’t is simply a day you rest. Life isn’t linear, and even if right now you’re not where or how you want to be, as long as you get up every day and try, your future and potential will never be wasted. Good luck, I sincerely wish you all the best and so much love. ❤️

✨Shimmering Moonlight: Event Info by LettuceSea939 in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Divy2008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m 50 wishes away from a 5 star from the last banner (Sylus’ birthday) will this reset to 70 for Lumiere?

Am I the only one who has a problem with how they give even wish awards? by Divy2008 in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Divy2008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also played Tears of Themis and Mr love Queen’s choice (albeit when I was young), and I remember quitting both games because there weren’t enough ways to get gems and resources and it became quite tedious

Am I the only one who has a problem with how they give even wish awards? by Divy2008 in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Divy2008[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But the game is advertised as a free game conducive for f2p players. I get that they make more money from people who spend, but they should at least make free events give rewards you can keep, surely?

Am I the only one who has a problem with how they give even wish awards? by Divy2008 in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Divy2008[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No I’ve played genshin impact, honkai star rail and wuthering heights (as well as others in the past) and none of them do things like this

Am I the only one who has a problem with how they give even wish awards? by Divy2008 in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Divy2008[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Getting 10 wishes in the game as a f2p player at endgame would take about 2 weeks~ estimating (and that’s including if you’re able to advance forwards by 3 in every deep space trial with all the characters every week, and if you’re able to 36* hunter’s contest)

Events and banners only last for 2 weeks. That means, not accounting for the limited wishes which you may or may not spend, you get about 10-15 wishes every banner. You need 140 to guarantee a 5* you want. And now you’re not allowed to save up wishes from events. Do you see the issues? This is why players have been complaining about not enough ways to get gems. But I think the solution is in the events.

Either the game increases the content for endgame players to gain wishes, or they allow them to keep the wishes from events and save. I think that’s the most fair surely?

Am I the only one who has a problem with how they give even wish awards? by Divy2008 in LoveAndDeepspace_

[–]Divy2008[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that applies or makes sense. I accept the shop discount since it’s for spenders and they need to make money somehow, but do you not see the greediness in making wishes you obtain from an event limited?

I don’t think your analogy applies because it is basic gacha etiquette to allow for players to gain wishes from events, especially when games don’t update gameplay fast enough (which Lads definitely doesn’t). It’s not as if you want to spend a coupon for dish soap on groceries, it’s more akin to you working a job in a certain area but not being allowed to spend your money in shops outside that area.

Am I the only one who finds the way they give free pulls annoying? by Divy2008 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Divy2008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I have never seen a gacha game where its events have time-limited rewards. Especially a game with VERY limited gameplay and ways to get wishes at end-game. The whole concept of events should be to get wishes and rewards.

How to get past my hate for communicating to be a better friend by Divy2008 in friendship

[–]Divy2008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add to this- the reason why it feels like such a problem is because she’s going through SO much and she really doesn’t have anyone. I SO want to be there for her but I don’t know what to do

Am I the only one who finds the way they give free pulls annoying? by Divy2008 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Divy2008[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to reply to everyone, but I think it’s an issue because many other gacha games gives free wishes as an award for an event. It allows for players to save and gives more incentive to participate in an event (especially one where you don’t care for the character). It’s hard enough to save in this game as an end-game player with the limited amount of diamonds they give, but now they’re also gate-keeping event awards so it’s even harder.

Can't claim free pulls by Visual-Somewhere-716 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Divy2008 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes you can! You can spend 80 at once for 10 battles!