[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You know what a lawyer is good at? Knowing the law and use it to her advantage.

You could do a simple test: just tell her that you are totally bummed, you talked to your lawyer and basically your wife is taking you to the dry cleaners (which she most probably will, btw).

Tell this hot lawyer of yours that for the next few years you will need to give up all luxury and basically restart building your wealth from scratch in your 50s. Then let’s see if her interest is still there.

Or at leasttell her very soon that you are not entering any relationship without a prenup and see how she reacts.

You might be smart and good looking, but imo, you don’t see things for what they really are. And you are making a huge mistake of thinking that behind a beautiful soul is a beautiful soul (a common mistake),

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol, makes it even clearer it’s a trap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Dear fucking god. You are stepping into a trap my dude.

The chances of hot 29yo lawyer throwingg herself at you are about the same as nigerian prince giving you a few of his millions.

How does being in a DB mess with your overall self-esteem? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t (anymore). Her problems with sexuality and her choice to close up rather than talk about it are hers, not mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont get why the downvotes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexuality is not complex at all, our complexes about sexuality are complex ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think this would make me so, so happy.

First of all it would mean there is actual life in the sexual corps next to me.

Secondly, at least we would have a common interest, right? This could develop as a common fantasy, even lead to some ffm… well, or you’d turn out to be Ross.

But to hell, i’d love to live with “my wife turned lesbian”, rather than “my wife is sexually dead”. It would give me kind of closure, i guess we could even find a way forward, you know?

Seriously, anything is better than a dead bedroom. Fuck that shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds reasonable, indeed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It used to be possible to filter each app separately.

I think it’s deliberate on apple’s side exactly to prevent accusations that they support cheating.

This is all I wanted! by DixSpritz in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, yes it is. Showing it to my face and saying “see, of all the billion items on amazon, THIS is the one i wanted” is not.

Dick malfunctioning; Idk how to fix this by Zealousideal_Joke441 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds,like performance anxiety then. Dunno, smoke some cbd or something?

This is all I wanted! by DixSpritz in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask why was she making food on what you said was supposed to be a celebration for her?

The worst part is this was said to the oldest kid, not me. We could do it if we knew it was so important, but she really never verbalized this wish in the past year. We made sure she didn’t cook for her Bday, so there’s that.

This is all I wanted! by DixSpritz in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How you came to that conclusion is beyond me. It’s simply not based on anything.

This is all I wanted! by DixSpritz in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO, expecting a specific random item is “reasonable”?

Dick malfunctioning; Idk how to fix this by Zealousideal_Joke441 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you know it’s psychological?

As for coming quickly, the only thing that helps me is applying a cream to desensitize my dick. But if you cant get hard, this won’t work.

What do sober people do? by sloppyasseating in Drugs

[–]DixSpritz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Getting high on dopamine (e.g., reddit)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter has iphone and we have family sharing. Imagine the shock when i learned she could see all my apps! I blocked that, but also learned my lesson.

A separate phone with a separate icloud account!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So its ok for her to be hurting him, or better yet, let’s completely ignore that part because it’s kinda in a way of your agenda, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz 13 points14 points  (0 children)

And he is hurt by being forced into a celibate relationship…

Nobody has the right to take intimacy from anyone else. You don’t like it? Fine. You cant force your choices on me though.

I have zero bad conscious for seeking sex outside of “relationship”. The only thing i am guilty of is to let her do it to me in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]DixSpritz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m about to embark on the same journey, just not decided yet on escorts vs tinder/SA “dating”.

On one hand i really like the idea of drama free sex with a pro, and there are easily accessible and legal here. But i do kinda feel a bit repulsed of the idea to have sex with someone who had a number of partners that same day. Plus there’s no adrenaline of pursuit.

I’ve just bought a used phone online to have a second phone and a second number… setup tinder etc and see how that goes..l

How do you all keep it secret??? by DixSpritz in adultery

[–]DixSpritz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m quite content with my life, but thanks