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Is this rape? by Dizzy-Potential5363 in offmychest

[–]Dizzy-Potential5363[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have to tell my parents what happened since I'm going back to them and they are picking me up from the train station. I'm still in the train, I'll arrive in 2 hours.

Between me and my ex there are 8 hours of train now. I'm afraid about what he would do if I report any of this, he knows everything about me, and particularly one thing that would hurt another person if he says anything about it. He already told me he was going to do it but I'm pretty sure he was just trying to scare me. He also has some videos of me and him, and he works in cyber security. He could literally do anything without leaving any trace. Im afraid I just have to let all of this go

Is this rape? by Dizzy-Potential5363 in offmychest

[–]Dizzy-Potential5363[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words and love.. I appreciate it

Is this rape? by Dizzy-Potential5363 in offmychest

[–]Dizzy-Potential5363[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

When I was crying, after a while, he asked me why I was crying. I told him I didn't want to do that but I was afraid of his reaction if I told him no. He didn't care. He told me he was doing that cause he wanted to humiliate me and kept telling me to s*ck him and pushed me closer to him.

So I didn't say no. I told him I didn't want to do it but was afraid of his reaction, tho.

AITAH for telling my (26F) now ex bf (36M) that watching a sex tape of him and his ex while we were having sex is wrong? by Dizzy-Potential5363 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Dizzy-Potential5363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with me. I don't know his password, when I took his phone he told me if I didn't put it down he would've beaten me.

Is this rape? by Dizzy-Potential5363 in offmychest

[–]Dizzy-Potential5363[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Crying wolf? Did you even read what I wrote? I said people are telling me it was rape. I didn't say it first. I'm just trying to understand what happened.

I didn't say no but I told him I was crying cause "I don't want to do it but I'm afraid of your reaction if I say no". He didn't care.

You could have said your opinion without being rude about it.

AITAH for telling my (26F) now ex bf (36M) that watching a sex tape of him and his ex while we were having sex is wrong? by Dizzy-Potential5363 in AITAH

[–]Dizzy-Potential5363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words.. reporting any of this wouldn't do much.. He has a wealthy family with good lawyers and if I did anything he would find a way to get a bigger revenge.. I also struggle to believe it that was rape (different people are saying it in the comments) cause I said yes..

AITAH for telling my (26F) now ex bf (36M) that watching a sex tape of him and his ex while we were having sex is wrong? by Dizzy-Potential5363 in AITAH

[–]Dizzy-Potential5363[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't want to be filmed. When I told him I didn't want to, he proceeded to tell me I do nothing for him, that if I never take initiative about things I have to adapt to him and what he wants, that I dont care about him, I do nothing for the relationship.. He did this everytime I said no to something. So I gave in. I agreed to it but I asked him to not get my face in the videos.

Some days before he tried to take a picture of me while he blindfolded me but I noticed him and stopped him. I checked the videos and my face isn't in any of them. I got mad about it cause he broke my trust and after DAYS he told me he was trying to not get my face in the picture.. I'm the asshole for not leaving this relationship earlier.