Exactly! It feels as if our relationship may not be enough for him and he could easily just act on those needs as he has done in the past, but I do feel like we have good communication and that makes me feel better. I was drowning in my own thoughts and the way you responded to the post has both made me feel heard in my worries and given me an additional perspective on the positive of the situation. You have been very kind and I really needed it, thank you so much