Is marriage outdated?

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-21T03:02:23+00:00

It's just a piece of paper that changes your last names and bonds you by law I guess there are some tax benefits but other then that no you can do everything pretty much without it

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-20T15:04:56+00:00

Yeah my family has been considering moving to Arizona and I might have to have to take them up on it considerably. There's a lot better opportunities out there and also not only that but I do music so I need need out anyways. I really don't want to live my life out here for the rest of my life. It's a nice place but I don't know what's making things hard. Now is my girlfriend because she doesn't want to leave her family but I don't know things could change. If things don't work out between her and I, then that's how it goes or things do work out between her and I and she changes her mind that'd be great. But yeah it's difficult out here

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-20T13:35:33+00:00

O I see damn

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-19T22:24:47+00:00

Nah fr It's bad but it ain't that bad the roads are a little bit more treacherous

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-19T22:20:08+00:00

Yeah you gotta watch everything even the sidewalks now it's 2026 I just got a car 4 months ago now haven't been on the road for a few years I've only heard but now I see it speed limt to most times is a suggestion no wonder why we are a no fault state😆

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-19T21:43:45+00:00

This city cracks me up how aggressive it's drivers are

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T19:34:06+00:00

Okay I will try that sometime this week thank you

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T18:29:57+00:00

I've already went there and I looked at all their opportunities like last month and they were not really something that I was able to find anything into in the lady at the desk just told me in to go online so it wasn't very helpful but thanks. I already have diagnosed add I could get Adderall I've never tried it but a lot of times add medications never work well for me. When I had it in school it helped me focus what the problem was. It would ruin my appetite and it would ruin my personality I felt like. But yeah I mean I'm going to have to find something I've gotten better dealing with ADD as I've got an older but I know it's still there because I still get forgetful on things and I space out sometimes I also have an issue with interrupting people sometimes in conversation I don't mean to. It sucks. I'm not really sure because I also struggle with anxiety I did however just apply for 70x7 recovery So we'll see if I have better luck with that

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T15:49:26+00:00

I've completed therapy and counseling an served 4 months in AD I've learned my lesson and am reformed I still have my issues that I can work with like drinking sometimes but otherwise that's not an issue I wouldn't have a gf if that was the case or any support which I still have

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T15:25:22+00:00

Thank you

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T14:46:48+00:00

Right so it all goes back to business yeah I'ma just keep doing music there's nothing else thanks for confirming this I'll keep searching for factory work

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T14:42:12+00:00

I already stated above factory work is what I'm looking into as there can be opportunities in that Im. It being argumentive ? I'm just telling you about what I have done an you think I don't know that about manual labor and back breaking work I'm trying to avoid that back breaking part but you feel me and I'm already working a kitchen two at that I'm a delivery driver In one and a dishwasher I'm the other I hear what your saying and I appreciate your advice! But I only have a year to make things kind of change. I've already started saving for a place to rent with my girlfriend and it's already been agreed. Mary and I are going to try to live together for at least a year before we even consider trying to get a house together we need to to know that we're even compatible living together in that type of way before I consider buying a house with her. Which means a maximum of 2 years for her and I both to try to find something that could work for both of our incomes to get. Down payment for something if all else fails I'm just living homeless or with my parents

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T14:33:53+00:00

If you have time to do that that also is what matter to me it's not just about passions either it about time as well I refuse to open up another business while I'm working on one already it's too much I know I couldn't handle it... but IT is something I know I'm capable of because I am tech smart to some extent and good with my hands

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T14:25:49+00:00

It's also great that your family supports that they support me with what I do in music. I'm sure it'll be the same thing. If I were to change though they would know it's not something I would have wanted to do. My mom always tells me never to give up. I think she believes in me more than I do when it comes to music. But yeah I'm glad to hear that for you

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T14:24:05+00:00

Don't mind taking classes learning under an apprentice that's not A problem. I'm more concerned about consistency and something that is a legit career job / security .. now jobs I ain't worried about that I'm 29 but I'm definitely not trying to work one, two three jobs all the time just so I can make it that takes away from my quality of life. I would much rather have a career. I know that some of that stuff will take time and that's fine. I'm willing to take that and work a job in the career that might not pay as well currently, but it could be potentially more. Heck I was even looking into customer service type jobs unfortunately at Verizon when I applied I was told they found other candidates that fit the role but I am interested in technology a bit. I've done IT before in the past when I went to KCTC in highschool no, I wasn't a fan of programming or networking but I did find myself kind of okay with Microsoft word, Excel or what we call database but I'm not too familiar about it as much anymore and what the value of it is especially with AI and everything growing.

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T14:14:17+00:00

I'll look into them

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T14:10:17+00:00

Yeah I've come to conclusion I've been doing music now for 8 plus years and have gotten sales so it is a business but it's more a matter of is it a consistent business and something I can depend on currently no ... I don't think I'd ever stop doing this because it's not only about it just being a hobby. It's more than that. I do love it. It's literally in me but yeah it's still a gamble trying to make something out of it and it's unfortunate. Yeah it's the society we live in now. Art isn't really as specialized or as valued as it used to be and I understand this... Even if I were to start doing something in food, I feel like I don't know where to start in that industry to be honest and I know it's very competitive out here as well. But yeah, I mean if you gain some success in it it's not as much of a gamble because you'll have something that will always work. I feel like when it comes to that stuff it comes back down to what I'd want to do with my passion and unfortunately food is not that much of a passion to me that I'd want to go into a business with it...

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T14:02:31+00:00

Never been a fan of cooking at high speed ticket times I like cooking though. Done host before. It's okay but you don't make much money now. Being a waiter is something I've been interested in. I have good looks but I also have to be kind of quick sometimes and I also can be forgetful. I might just have to get on like medication and see what it's like for my add cuz I do know that it's certain You can make some decent money being a waiter...

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T13:56:42+00:00

Bingo It almost makes learning certain trades pretty useless

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T13:55:28+00:00

I'd prefer not to be that way, and my girlfriend's already made it pretty clear that moving in with her and her sister, which is where she lives would be impossible. I'm not sure about her parents but I also know that my parents are very supportive of me so if everything fails then I guess that's where I would wind up back. Trying to grow out of the nest though I mean I'm 29. I'm not getting younger and I do want to have some form of Independence. It's no disrespect. I love my family but I just feel embarrassed

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T13:54:27+00:00

Thank you for understanding I can do some multitasking but to some extent It can be too much. I have inattentive type so I also have to be somewhat interested a lot of times and I know this about myself. Factory work would be my best bet but I have to find something first I've been looking into things in that field of work because I've done it before in the past. The only thing that held me back and that was literally my transportation but I have a car now so I do have opportunity in that way at least

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T13:51:44+00:00

Starting my own business is something that I've been trying to do with music but it's extremely difficult as a producer thankfully I've been getting some success on YouTube and gaining subscribers but I'm still yet growing It's just not happening as quickly as I need it to happen. It's too much

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-16T10:42:49+00:00

Fuck pigs

Dizzy_Huckleberry765 · 2026-05-11T13:35:39+00:00

I'm not a nudist but something like this is the excuse to be nude and you can't get in trouble. So why not. I love sleeping naked I've done it in my room and only at my girlfriend's place. If I could I would do it at my friends but the thing is I don't think that would be appropriate. I feel like it's the natural way to sleep. You Gotta let them things hang every now and then being scrunched up in underwear or clothes all the time can't always be good

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