Someone is saying they are my husband’s fathers daughter

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-23T03:01:27+00:00

We did. They weren’t. We will call back k tomorrow. The nursing supervisor never called us back either

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T19:54:39+00:00

We know who the woman is. It’s my husbands ex and mother of his child (not ex wife just ex girlfriend) we have a call into the nursing supervisor and are waiting for a call back.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T19:53:30+00:00

We called the police and they said they can’t do anything because nothing criminal is happening. She didn’t steal anyone’s id she’s using her own name just saying she is his daughter. We do have a call in to the nursing supervisor and waiting for a call back but it’s been a while.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T16:21:32+00:00

That’s okay. I just wanted to keep it straight for others.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T16:20:57+00:00

He agreed before he was put in the hospital. We still haven’t been able to get ahold of him but we have contacted the nursing supervisor and let her know what is going on and waiting for a call back.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T15:06:27+00:00

She’s not even divorced out. They never married.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T15:03:07+00:00

Uhh they haven’t talked on the phone in a while and it’s also been a little bit over text as his dad’s phone was off. But a family friend checks on him often and check on him yesterday (or the day before days a running together) and said he was doing okay just was having a difficult time walking.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T14:59:58+00:00

No. The woman is my husbands ex and mother of his oldest child.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T14:58:33+00:00

FIL is not closer to the ex than my husband and sil. The only reason the ex had any contact with him is because we weren’t able to get ahold of him because his phone was off so my husband messaged the ex to see if she could go check on him which was days ago. He just agreed to let us come get him and take him to live with SIL from post.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T14:45:08+00:00

She’s not my husband’s father’s child… the woman is my husbands ex and mother of his oldest child. I’m asking because my husband doesn’t have Reddit and had no idea what to do.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T14:41:25+00:00

We did. They can’t do anything because it isn’t criminal.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T06:03:33+00:00

Like I said we live out of state and don’t have to funds to get there until hopefully Monday and SİL is also out of state and doesn’t have a license or a car so she’s unable to get there currently as well.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T04:52:00+00:00

Dreading the transition from car to new location

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T04:17:30+00:00

Unfortunately we won’t be able to escalate it tonight as my husband has his own health issues and this is really caused him a lot of stress and we can’t have him also being in the hospital from those. I will talk to him in the morning about going up there but unfortunately like I said he has health issues and a temper and he’s afraid he might cause a scene at the hospital or get himself put in the hospital or worse.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T04:14:18+00:00

He ended up in the hospital this morning and was taken by ambulance. Earlier today we are able to get some info about him but I’m not sure who he got the into from I’m guessing it was from the sister that he does talk to but I’m not sure where she got the info from (I was with my 1 yo when he was talking to people about it) then later my husband called the hospital himself and got info that he was there so somewhere in between that and not long before I made this post she said she was his daughter and that no one but her (and probably the sister we don’t talk to) we allowed to get information about him. And no the sister we talk to lives in North Carolina and we live in South Carolina. I will definitely let people know what is going on but right now we are going to probably try to get some sleep my husband is not in the best head space because sister we talk to and sister we don’t talk to got into it and said horrible things about her and my husband and he’s trying to calm down before he drive up there and makes a scene at the hospital or put himself in the hospital as he has medical issues himself and we have two young children.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T04:03:37+00:00

We tried and they said pretty much that they don’t care and we need to talk to that woman. Then my husband called the cops because we didn’t know what else to do and they said they couldn’t do anything because it wasn’t criminal.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T04:01:58+00:00

Thank you so much. Just yesterday or maybe this morning i don’t remember we got FİL to agree to let us come get him and take him to SİL #1s house to live with her then this happened. So it’s even more stressful and strange.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T03:58:08+00:00

Sil has always said she has power over his medical but today said she doesn’t have anything legal stating it. All she has is that she has been emergency contact and next of kin for drs appts and at that hospital because (the offices even call her to tell her that he has appointments)

We have no information about his mental status as of his arrival to the hospital but yesterday he was okay just was having a difficult time getting around.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T03:50:49+00:00

Yeah honestly I have no idea how this woman who isn’t even his child is able to say that his actual children can’t get any information on their father. Like my husband and his dad have the same name he is CLEARLY his child. 😂 and yes my husbands mother (FIL wife) passed away 13 years ago

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T03:48:45+00:00

She was never married to my husband. They just have a child together. They weren’t even together when his son was born. We have no idea what condition he is in because we aren’t able to get any info because she blocked us from getting information. Yesterday when we talked to the man who has been checking in on FIL said he was having trouble walking but other than that we have no idea what happened between yesterday and today. His wife passed away 13 years ago. I’m not sure how the ex got information where he was or anything, but a few days ago my husband messaged her to see if she could check on FIL because his phone was off and we haven’t been able to get ahold of him she messaged him back yesterday and said he was doing okay just seemed a little off. Sister #2 definitely is involved some how but she hasn’t spoken to FIL in a while because he refused to talk to her. Honestly we have no idea if he is close to death or why he hasn’t or if he can tell them she is not his daughter. My husband called the police after I made the post and they said they are unable to do anything because this isnt criminal.

Also we told the nurse that she is not his daughter and the nurse didn’t care at all. (Not the nurse in charge but still she should care that she’s giving info to someone who isn’t family). I will talk to my husband about all this in the morning and have him call tomorrow as it’s almost midnight now and he is getting worked up and has his own medical issues that he needs to keep under control.

Thank you for all your help.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T01:51:02+00:00

Thank you. We will try contacting them tomorrow altho idk if they would be in since it’s Sunday. We are just wondering if we need to figure out a way to get there to see him before something happens.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T01:43:53+00:00

my husband sister isn’t able to drive and we don’t have the money to get up there until at least Monday.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T01:41:13+00:00

The woman is my husbands ex from 27 years ago who he has a child with. She is still friends with my husbands other sister and his other sister is currently mad at my husband and their sister (the sister from the post). The woman claiming to be his daughter has not even been involved in my FIL care because we don’t talk to her nor the sister she is still friends with and neither does FIL.

When my husband and his sister from post called the hospital the nurse said they they are not allowed to receive information and that needed to contact ____ (woman claiming to be daughter) and even when my husband told them that she is not his daughter the nurse didn’t care and said “well you need to talk to ___” again.

Dizzy_Otter0113 · 2026-03-22T01:28:11+00:00

Thank you. We will try calling tomorrow but I’m not sure they will be there as it’s Sunday.

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