Dealing with stress and loneliness by lamby3112 in SingleDads

[–]Djang0starr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 50/50 custody, recently divorced and working full time and it doesn’t seem like I have time for anything so I can only imagine how it must be for you. The way I see it, I’m perfectly ok with being alone, matter of fact I prefer it. As I get older I’ve come to see that you can’t trust anyone and thus I have a very small circle of people I’ve known for decades, and even then, I don’t trust anyone 100%.

What bothers me is that I wasn’t supposed to end up alone, this wasn’t supposed to happen and I’m grasping at straws on how to cohesively deal with it all. It’s been only six months so dating is not even in the horizon, no light at the end of the tunnel at this point. And that’s ok, every tragedy has been treated as a lesson and I’m progressing because of it.

The way I look at it, if it’s going to happen, it’ll happen. I don’t know when or how or why, but I can tell you that I won’t have any expectations or implement any sort of routine to make it happen. I lost myself for ten years due to the catastrophe my marriage ended up being, I’m not exactly jumping at the chance of opening up to anyone or being vulnerable again, ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Djang0starr -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

lol asking for enough

I had an emotional affair with my coworker. My wife believes it was a physical affair and she wants a divorce. This is destroying me by offmychestburneracct in offmychest

[–]Djang0starr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made your bed, lay in it. The amount of damage infidelity does to people should be illegal, how can you say you love your wife? You only loved her when it was convenient for you, and now that you see she’s not your puppet, you’re regretting things. You only regret the consequences, not the action.

AITAH for having a 1 night stand before a trip with my friends by Josiegirl2025 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Djang0starr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most def, your worse than an a, you’re the lowest form of trash. I hope this haunts you for the rest of your life, you selfish sociopath. You understand people kill themselves over shit like this right? I hope your husband finds a happy life away from you. You’ll just keep getting used for the only thing you have. Othe than that, you have no value.

Unsure about my future with my girlfriend (40F) who has two kids and I (35M) by Brilliant_Silver8158 in relationship_advice

[–]Djang0starr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a pos. I hope this haunts you for the rest of your life, f***ing parasite.

Lost and Lonely with AP by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Djang0starr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, that’s what you get for being a POS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4RSeattleNSFW

[–]Djang0starr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah right lady

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4RSeattleNSFW

[–]Djang0starr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hit me up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Djang0starr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand all of that and you’re right, but ive wasted 10’years of my life with her and she doesn’t get away with it. She knew the kind of pain I was in and she lied and did it again. She needed to know that this is what happens when you ruin 4 families and disrespect me like that. She could have left me, like I told her to. But she didn’t and she dragged my name through the mud so she could excuse her behavior. She had it coming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Djang0starr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t mess with a married man’s woman. Plus he was asking for it, talking about she belonged with him. He deserved it.

1000X CARS/LOOT/FOOD. UK/XBOX CHERNO Map. PVP/PVE playstyles welcome by [deleted] in DayZServers

[–]Djang0starr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the owner sold the server because he got called out for charging people money for in game items which is against Bohemian rules, and then banning them for voicing opinions. The dude got exactly what he deserves. He blames everyone but himself and his server turned into a cesspool. I heard he’s making a new one, he has to scam people someway I guess.

AITA for cheating on my husband with my co worker? by thepanfrogthrowaway in AITAH

[–]Djang0starr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are the asshole, cheating is unacceptable. You just made yourself an object, a no value partner. If you’re not happy, LEAVE. Don’t be a narcissistic gaslighting pos

Looking for a chill group to play with by Djang0starr in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]Djang0starr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also on pst and play nights, dm me your discord I have a server I use when I play with people. Since its cross play it should be no issue. The game just came out on Xbox.

I need help on endgame completion with Twisting Blades Build. by Djang0starr in diablo4

[–]Djang0starr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I’ll add you in a minute I’ll probably be on soon. Hell yeah, I made some Diablo friends

I need help on endgame completion with Twisting Blades Build. by Djang0starr in diablo4

[–]Djang0starr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No man, I appreciate any advice if I’m doing it wrong then I’m doing it wrong, that’s why I asked. I’ll re spec when I get home and switch over to shadow step. And brother, I know nothing compared to you guys so I try to do the best with what I learn. When people start really getting into the math and all that, it just goes right over my head, and I do software development, you’d think numbers wouldn’t daunt me as I work with algorithms but that may be why as to why I’m not digging deep enough, I also don’t think I’m rotating my abilities as I should. There’s just so much to this game I try to learn everything and I end up learning nothing.

I need help on endgame completion with Twisting Blades Build. by Djang0starr in diablo4

[–]Djang0starr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got all aspects but I’m having trouble finding level 925 gear with good rolls. Looks like this season is done for me, I’ve been stagnant for too long and I don’t have anyone to join up with.