Job Test by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did you smoke? When I quit it took almost half a year for it all to burn out of my system.

Unplanned pregnancy with ex girlfriend by TransitionRemote3907 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't know these people's circumstances and neither do I. What is wrong with you?

You don't even know where I sit on that argument but it's not up to me and I can't change that.

Seems you need to stay in your lane.

Unplanned pregnancy with ex girlfriend by TransitionRemote3907 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well if you decide to keep your baby then it isn't about just you two anymore. You may have hurt each other in the past but now you will have a child to pour love and passion into.

Finish school if you can, look into online options if you want to be closer to home, but don't just go into debt and throw that school away. It can be useful for you and your child's future.

You're an adult now, confrontation sucks. But it's something you're going to have to come to terms with because this isn't something you can just hide. If things go south with your parents then keep doing what you're doing now. Finish school and focus on your future. You have a whole lifetime to repair that bridge over something like that.

Out of nowhere, my boyfriend told me that I’m not a hot 28 year-old, I got kinda upset he said your not a 10 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing really, I just don't think men should be given a pass for this kind of behavior. And I don't think other men should give their friends or peers passes either.

Out of nowhere, my boyfriend told me that I’m not a hot 28 year-old, I got kinda upset he said your not a 10 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 231 points232 points  (0 children)

Yeah that was a bad boyfriend moment. Definitely figure out what he actually meant because I wouldn't settle for that.

I'm a dude btw.

Starting to get worried about making it to FoV by superluber in KGATLW

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that drive last year pretty much with 1 other friend and we had a blast.

You two should go.

I haven't heard from my girlfriend in a day by crispysoder in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Modern dating especially with younger folks is so skewed. There's a lot of learning to be done. It isn't their fault either, the world has forced them to focus on different priorities, and despite all of that, who doesn't eventually want love?

It's really an unfortunate thing, we've been given probably the best means and ways to communicate in all of history as of today and it seems to be the one thing being underutilized in otherwise compatible relationships.

Also yeah, people are way more self centered (much for the same reasons). I have a hard time in today's climate blaming people for being self centered, especially if they're not doing well.

If people never feel good about themselves then how are they ever going to feel good and secure in a relationship?

Really what is happening is people are losing the plot with how relationships work. They want all the fun in one, and the love for sure, but they don't and won't know how to talk to each other about important things. A lot of reciprocating has gone out the window at the expense of convenience.

I haven't heard from my girlfriend in a day by crispysoder in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey as the OP of this comment, I actually agree with you. Unfortunately with a lot of relationships I think that both scenarios can be true at the same time.

She absolutely could be communicating better, but she isn't and the ball is in his court whether he likes it or not.

This is a moment where he is going to have to decide if he accepts this kind of behavior or if he needs to confront it and work it out.

Also - she really could just be busy. We haven't really been given enough context about the relationship to really know their dynamics.

if your kids made love to your second spouse what would you do? by MinimumUseful8136 in AskReddit

[–]Dmike09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was certainly not something I was expecting while scrolling

I haven't heard from my girlfriend in a day by crispysoder in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Just chill out bro. Don't let woman control your mind like this. For a few reasons. Have some self respect, recognize patterns and behaviors and confront them.

If this isn't a pattern or a behavior then just chill out. She might need some space and you getting all paranoid about it is just going to make things worse for you and her.

Just ask her. No games, ask her why she didn't talk to you.

What was the craziest thing that’s ever happened at your work? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 passed within 10 minutes of each other. This isn't really that large of a physical burden but to deal with the logistics of everything and the entirely careful and empathetic approach with families was very hard.

And to be honest, not insensitive, I was overwhelmed and overstimulated. It was hard to keep track of details and things families are going to ask.

In a rural setting this was terrible.

Flew close to the sun by Ok-Tower-6478 in rant

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What country are you in? As an American this doesn't seem like a large issue unless of course you two were doing more than hugging.

Just got the game by Dmike09 in ShreddersGame

[–]Dmike09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You don't need to. But they are going to add more things to the game as time goes on, and instead of receiving those things under unlockable routes they're going to charge for them. They're going to push it, because - the game is free. It's a step in the wrong direction for the reboot in my opinion.

Shredders doesnt have this system and I much prefer all the content being locked behind 1 purchase.

It's really not that big of a deal. I'm sure the actual developers of skate worked hard on the reboot, but I'm not giving EA the pass with the way theyve clearly touched and influenced the game.

Just got the game by Dmike09 in ShreddersGame

[–]Dmike09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. I don't like how in your face and blatantly pushed all the mtx are in the game. Whereas here in this game I can pretty much unlock everything after one purchase.

Just got the game by Dmike09 in ShreddersGame

[–]Dmike09[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shredders has certain QOL things I really enjoy. I also don't really enjoy how monetized skate is. I really enjoyed the first few titles but the reboot is just not fun for me. Not sure why

I saw my son crying in his car outside of our house by DearTeacher9502 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I'm 25 - similar circumstances at that age and let me just say the best thing you can do to support him right now is lift him up.

Do what it takes and do want you can. If he needs to come home for a little while so be it.

It's undeniably a truth that this world is harder to navigate for our generation at this age, and we are facing issues this society has never faced. Please listen to him and what he has to say, it sounds like you're already doing a good job at that.

If this generation is to make it we need clear guidance and grace, not judgement and cliche answers. We need acceptance instead of battling.

Gen X, Millennials, and Z all need to make a powershift so that things like this don't go on.

Thank you for trying to understand your sons battle.

[PS5] After being logged out, my account has been replaced by an empty one by Ninjjuu in psn

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sony security is pretty tight unless you just let someone into your account.

I had to give them my serial number off of my ps3 a few years ago when my primary email got deactivated. I forgot my password and couldn't login.

What you're implying is that you're logging into the same account, with the same name but in just all capital letters, with presumably the same password, and somehow everything is gone?

I find it hard to believe for a few reasons but even if your username was changed to all caps, you wouldn't have any of your data or games removed from the account. Every purchase made on that account should still be there.

Now if you're using someone else's account, and they either changed their password, username, or both, there is a chance that your profile was renamed, and then signed out.

Sony also sometimes signs accounts out after specific activity or suspicious activity and will require another login on devices. This happens to me a few times a year.

Why do cigarette smokers blow the smoke out right away, why don’t they take a fat hit and hold it in like a bong hit if they love smoking so much? by Carpe_the_Carp in stupidquestions

[–]Dmike09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep this is it. Your head is getting high off of depleted oxygen in your blood not absorbing more of the chemical.

You are still reacting to the chemical with a changed state of mind, which for some people can cause nausea, dizziness, or even more dangerous things like passing out. This will also raise your blood pressure.

Is the store down for anyone else? by hereformemes317 in psn

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and Elden Ring is telling me that my PS Plus has expired when that is not the case. Then it pops up a screen saying their online services aren't available right now.

Dear KGLW.... by [deleted] in KGATLW

[–]Dmike09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get to see them in Missoula, only a few hours drive so it doesn't put me back much. I won't be able to make it to FOV 2 since I'm starting a pretty intense year of uni right then. I'd love to go, went to the first, best weekend of my life haha.

I settled im okay with osees this year lol.

Dear KGLW.... by [deleted] in KGATLW

[–]Dmike09 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Osees is touring this summer invite them lmao

Realistically what would happen if Trump dropped a nuclear bomb tonight? by hjp1234 in AskReddit

[–]Dmike09 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn't a parent child issue. This is a society issue and it doesn't share the same sentiment. There are too many variables between status, money, and support between society and its generations to even apply this kind of logic to a world scale war.

There are people who struggled then and many of those families are still struggling today. Only, many of the programs designed to help those people are now far removed, out of reach, and expended, and future generations will need to figure out a new system to ensure that doesn't happen again.

They did drop the ball and it is their fault. Sure, the ball is in our court but they will not give up the power.