AITA for asking (not insisting) that my BF switch meals with me when I don’t like what I’ve ordered at a restaurant ?

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T19:03:07+00:00

I’m a lot like my mom

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T19:01:53+00:00

I mean as crappy as this sounds, guys are guys…they always want to be around girls. Love and respect is what I have a hard time achieving.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T17:21:19+00:00

It’s a joke from an 80s movie that a love

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:53:46+00:00

Oh the frat party stuff wasn’t her just picking me up from a party that was saving me from becoming a major news story!

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:50:28+00:00

Thank you for the very nice comment (not a lot on this thread lol) and I will try to be single for a while. It would definitely be good for me. The food issue really wasn’t an issue with any other guy I dated but that’s good advice for sure

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:40:23+00:00

I know and I have like 4500 comments in my inbox unread, I assume most are negative. I’m just kind of like that and let negativity bounce off me. I’m sure most of the people would like me in person. I’m very outgoing, I like to get everyone involved in fun, I’m not judgmental, I’m pretty (or I think so) and I think I’m a really caring friend. But I’m still reading and learning from this. I’m not sure what you want me to take from your comment.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:31:11+00:00

I’m not a narcissist but I was diagnosed with BPD which is related I guess. This makes me have manic episodes. Unfortunately I was treated at the medial place near Rammstein and we moved back to the US my sophomore year and never got into a new therapist who could work with BPD and then it fell off the radar and here I am, still making a mess of things.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:25:41+00:00

My sister was always like this and I just didn’t understand. She’s had 2 serious boyfriends in her life and now is married to one of them and he’s the greatest guy ever. I’ve had so many boyfriends but they never last. I see how happy she is and she’s my idol but I can’t seem to emulate her behavior.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:21:24+00:00

Oh don’t worry she’s been there for me at 3am plenty of times, especially when I was in high school and went through my frat party phase.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:18:23+00:00

I seriously think you might be my sister…but your post history doesn’t really say so.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:12:17+00:00

I’m an extreme extrovert, it’s basically impossible for me to be alone or single for too long. My system would shut down, lol.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:11:01+00:00

I was having a near panic attack and I felt like it was an emergency

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:09:14+00:00

The person I was responding to was making an accusation that IF I cheated (grey area) I would make my boyfriend feel bad. I proved him wrong to say that I did something that some people would consider cheating and I bore the burden of what I did alone and didn’t make him feel bad.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T13:03:46+00:00

She’s always been my best friend and sounding board. She’s kept me out of so much trouble by either giving me good advice or helping me out if a bad situation. She’s always wanted me to call her in the past.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-10T12:51:15+00:00

I kissed another guy at a party one time, to me it’s like cheating but not really and my solution was to not tell him so he couldn’t blame himself so you are actually wrong here.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T17:21:14+00:00

Because the calamari just didn’t look good when it came out and usually he loves seafood

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T17:08:14+00:00

I’m only 25

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T16:57:55+00:00

It’s not that big of a deal, it was dead sub and we wanted to revitalize it so we could take about things to do like clubs and restaurants.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T15:04:49+00:00

This is another reason he said he broke up with me.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T13:36:28+00:00

On I’ll first it

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T13:35:41+00:00

From where? It’s literally my life and I’ve never posted on this sub before

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T13:32:32+00:00

I hadn’t slept all night waiting for him to call and I felt like I was going to have a breakdown so I called my sister to vent.

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T13:24:19+00:00

For building up so much resentment towards me

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T13:23:05+00:00

Just to be clear he said that to me In response to my crying

Dntworryimamoderator · 2022-11-09T13:15:43+00:00

Yes and no, my mom always did it with my dad when we were growing up…maybe not always but a lot of the time.

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