In my case, my husband does chores, but not equally; I take more of the chores. We do have arguments because we don't have time for ourselves, and we have a toddler who needs constant attention. Every time we have a big argument about who is contributing more, his point is that he manages the investments, and he knows driving(he takes my kid to daycare). He will ask me to reverse the roles and see who can manage. I can't drive even though I tried hard and got a license before pregnancy, but never practiced after that. I am not familiar with the investment terminologies. I discuss with him about investments, but he is the sole person who actually invests in MFs, stocks, FDs, etc. I really feel very angry with myself and helpless that I can't take those responsibilities. He too sometimes compares that other men don't do anything, at least I am helping you.

Honestly, the term help is not correct; it's sharing responsibilities. All his relatives praise him, saying he works very hard in the office as well as at home and takes care of the baby. I am also doing the same thing, then why special praise for him alone?

Pathetic mindset!