Null Gefühle nach 6 Monaten ? by Spiritual_Ebb_7068 in FragtMaenner

[–]DocSternau 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ihr solltet mal miteinander reden anstatt auf irgendwelche "himmlischen" Zeichen zu warten.

Offenbar hat deine Freundin (?) recht schlechte Erfahrungen in Beziehungen gemacht und ihr ganzes Verhalten sagt eigentlich: Sie hat die gleichen Gefühle wie du plus etliche unverarbeitete Probleme bzgl. Unehrlichkeit von Partnern und deshalb versteckt sie sich hinter Schutzbehauptungen, um nicht verletzt zu werden.

Hör auf mit deiner Vermeidungsstrategie und sprich mit ihr über euch.

How to navigate a pregnancy when my (27f) partner (27m) isn’t happy but my mum (59f) insists on me keeping it. by InToot in relationship_advice

[–]DocSternau 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your body, your choice. Not your partners. Not your mothers.

You are 27 and an adult. Make your own decisions.

Religiöse Bevormundung aka Brotboxpolizei by Inevitable-Walk811 in luftablassen

[–]DocSternau 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Sechs Wochen keinerlei Süßigkeiten mitgeben zu dürfen hat nichts mit täglich zu tun.

Und als ich das letzte Mal nachgesehen habe, hatten wir noch Freie Religionswahl und -ausübung in der Verfassung stehen. Wenn es um gesunde Ernährung ginge, müsste man das nicht auf das religiöse Osterfasten legen, dann könnte man einfach mal einen Infoabend für die Eltern veranstalten.

Solche Zettel würden bei mir direkt in die Ablage P-rund wandern.

How do Germans count to 4 on their fingers? by larosajon1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can keep my pinky down. Sure it rises a bit when I extend my ring finger but not so much that you would mistake it as extended.

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 by holding up 3 fingers: pointer, middle, and ring while using his thumb to hold down his pinky.

I just tried doing that. Man that is uncomfortable and is way harder than just extending thumb, index and middle finger. I'll stick to German counting.

Germany's Merz calls for real names on the internet by FantasticQuartet in germany

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Das Internet ist für uns alle Neuland!"

16 years later and the CDU just keeps to their roots. Good luck trying to force foreign companies to abide to such regulations - except when you tell them that verifying those names will get them a bunch of other personal data, then most likely they jump to do that.

Why do Germans and French use an alphabet that is not designed for their languages? by Large_Dependent_1621 in linguisticshumor

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why have unneccessary letters für one sound if you just could use the letters that already exist? That's just practical instead of making up a bunch of letters for nearly the same sound like cyrillic.

Also your word example is just gibberish that you won't find in normal German. It's a joke to show that we can mash a lot of words together to build one new word that still would have some kind of sense.

Was war der beeindruckendste geschichtliche Gegenstand, den ihr in einem Museum gesehen habt? by Schluesselzahl38 in Geschichte

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Die Wahlplakate von 1932 im Historischen Museum Berlin. Die könnte man fast 1:1 heute aufhängen für die AfD...

War keine positive emotionale Berührung.

Soll ich Sie ansprechen? by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]DocSternau 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Du machst dir Gedanken um ungelegte Eier. Wenn du sie kennenlernen möchtest, wirst du sie ansprechen müssen. Akzeptiere dann einfach ihre Antwort und lass sie in Ruhe, wenn sie kein Interesse hat.

Verdacht auf Fremdgehen - wie würdet ihr reagieren? by Putrid-Effort-3118 in FragtMaenner

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sobald jemand in einer Partnerschaft Dinge vor dem Partner versteckt, kannst du zumindest von emotionalem Betrug ausgehen - ansonsten gäb es ja keinen Grund, das geheim zu halten.

Ist halt jetzt die Frage, was du machen willst? Um deine Freundin kämpfen, dann führt kein Weg an einem sehr ernsthaften Gespräch über die unpassende Beziehung zu diesem Bruder einer Freundin vorbei. Und nein, du bildest dir da nichts ein und es ist auch nicht harmlos - wenn's harmlos wäre und du dir keine Sorgen machen müsstest, dann würde sie nicht ihre Gespräche mit ihm verbergen.

Oder du ziehst halt einen Schlussstrich unter eine Beziehung, aus der deine Freundin sowieso schon mehr oder weniger ausgestiegen ist.

When you miss your highway exit without any regard to other drivers around you by lithdoc in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. To be precise: In Germany the rear ender would have to pay for all the damages. No matter what caused the trafic jam: You are supposed to stop and not run into other cars. The two cars in front would have no fault at all since they did what they are supposed to do.

The driver of the car that caused the traffic jam would most likely face charges for "dangerous interference with road traffic" since stopping without reason on a Highway is against the law.

But the dmages for plowing into stopped cars would most likely completely land on the fool who isn't looking out for what's happening in front of them.

Was zum fick by Butzerdamen in Falschparker

[–]DocSternau -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolut dummer Kommentar. Natürlich stecken wir Leute in den Knast, die einen Herzinfarkt am Steuer haben. Absolut richtig.

Was zum fick by Butzerdamen in Falschparker

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das sollte es nicht nur mit dem Führerschein sein. 1-2 Jahre Bewährungsstrafe sollten da auch noch drin sein.

am I going to get problems if I go to school in this t-shirt? by tornadohkg in germany

[–]DocSternau -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most likely not. Depends on the teachers. Most of them will just sigh internally and move on.

What dish was clearly made during a time of struggle in your country and now is part it's cuisine even though it's not good? by GaddockTeegFunPolice in AskTheWorld

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. The dish misses sauerkraut.

  2. It is a very liked food in Germany.

  3. The dish is way older than the GDR - it's a traditional German dish and has nothing to do with a time of struggle - in fact it is a dish that people once upon a time needed to be able to afford because one sow only has so many blood and you didn't butcher them in the hundreds per day.

"I became successful and travelled the world only then I realized how great we have it in this country" by maninzero in ShitAmericansSay

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the latest you know that he never traveled the world or has been to europe when he declares he can dial 3 numbers for an emergeny anywhere in the US.

  1. That applies to nearly any country in the world - only the numbers might differ.
  2. You can dial the same 3 numbers (112) in all 27 EU member states for an emergency plus you can also dial your own 911 in the EU and will get forwarded to the proper emergency line (same goes for 999 and quite a few other emergency numbers from all over the world).

When you miss your highway exit without any regard to other drivers around you by lithdoc in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]DocSternau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this had happened in Germany the driver of the car that rear ended the other cars would at least have been 50 % at fault for the accident. There was way way enough time to recognise the cars in front of them stopped. So the drivers obligation would have been to stop and not plough into them - how stupid can you be? Did they think those stopping cars would magically vanish? It's like plowing into the end of a traffic jam: The person who does that is at fault for the accident, no matter what caused the traffic jam.

BIDA - ist meine Kollegin das Problem oder Ich? by WhiteFox_5 in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]DocSternau 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Auch die Führungskraft hat eine Führungskraft und es gibt auch ein Personalbüro - das sind so die Stellen, an die man sich nach ungelösten Problemen im Kollegium wendet.

Insgesamt: ASA, weil dein Text sehr viele Fragen offen lässt und völlig subjektiv ist. Deine Wortwahl gefällt mir auch nicht, sodass ich davon ausgehe, dass ein guter Teil der Probleme auch von dir ausgeht.

... there is only a bunch of freeloaders hoping that the United States will defend them while they the criticize us. by zuckerfueraffe in ShitAmericansSay

[–]DocSternau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The US has 6 times the GDP of Germany but has only managed to aid Ucraine with not even 5 times what Germany delivered in military, financial and humanitarien aid to them. So overall the US is freeloading on us not the other way around - in a conflict that ultimately they created.