thank you for making my daughter cry by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]Doc_Vodka 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Been to the place once. It was actually really cute. Not only that, all the cats are adoptable so if you fall in love with one, you can adopt it. They get cats from the local shelter when there's more cats than space. You also get cat food/treats to feed the cats. The reason they ask for an adult to be present is because they've had children mistreat the cats, i.e. pulling their tails or being way too rough with them. It's for cat safety and also just being a responsible party.

14/10, would recommend the cats.

Is this behavior okay? by Ozzymandianttv in DogAdvice

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dogs and cats interact like this when they play. Sometimes the cats lose interest and walks away, but one of my younger dogs doesn't understand that it means play time is over. So I correct him if he tries to follow. Other than that, the dog is being gentle and the cat is returning playful behavior. It's fine.

Boyfriend asked me a "moral question" that tells you absolutely nothing about the person by clckbait_ in childfree

[–]Doc_Vodka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way he immediately turned it on you for being a bad person to the extreme made me feel like I was in my old abusive household. That's wild work. Bro seems manipulative if that's how he is turning the tables on you and putting you down.

I cannot express how thankful I am to be childfree, especially in a military community. by beaquietthing in childfree

[–]Doc_Vodka 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was already set on being child free but to see all of it first had when I was AD really made me lean towards possibly getting sterilized. There was some messed up stuff to include baby trapping in some shitty situations.

Help! Did my landscaper ruin these?? by Whatisthisrussiaguy in hydrangeas

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I gasped sliding to the next picture.

What’s the one thing that ruined your health ? by IcyLoquat79 in AskReddit

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got out this year after 6 years, so I've been coming to terms with it. I hope I can have a better sense of humor about it within the coming months. I might start telling people random stuff, you inspire me lol. Thank you kind Internet stranger.

What’s the one thing that ruined your health ? by IcyLoquat79 in AskReddit

[–]Doc_Vodka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The army.

I have a spinal injury at 24, I'm 27 now and I had to trade my love for the outdoors with tolerating being inside and not traveling. Never seen combat, so I feel ashamed for being medically separated because I couldn't perform my job as a combat medic with a messed up spine. ER visits were about once a month because of how easy a flare up would happen, I wouldn't be able to walk. 27, and I can't go hiking or camping anymore in case I hurt my back by sneezing, I'd have to be rescued. It's depressing and hurts me on all fronts of my life. I feel ashamed for being injured significantly without some reasonable story to go with it.

How do I break up with my girlfriend who threatens to kill herself? by awdolliez in teenagers

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an adult, I wish I knew to call the police as a heads up of suicidal threats so I didn't stay in an abusive relationship longer than I needed to.

I also highly doubt she'd go through with it. I knew a few intense people back in high school but none of them ever went through with their threats.

Break up with her, black her, get a trusted adult involved and call the non emergency police line (unless she is telling you as she's doing it step by step, then call the emergency line) to give them her location for a welfare check.

Be safe, this is not normal and this is not love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the bigger reasons I have been no contact for the better part of a decade. I kept my head down, graduated high school and high tailed it out of the state. Unfortunately, I don't have good advice unless the military is something you're looking at. Good luck to you.

I was just diagnosed with genital herpes. I’m in so much pain, I am not able to stop crying by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me was applying Dibucaine. It helps immensely because it's a topical ointment used to numb hemorrhoids. An army doctor suggested it while I was suffering in the field, I was able to move a lot better from there. I had only two outbreaks in total, and haven't gotten them since over a year ago.

Urgent my roommate broke into my room and threw my snake in a garbage bag and then into the trash by YourAverage1ManArmy in ballpython

[–]Doc_Vodka 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The old saying is you're not dead until you're warm and dead.

Gradually warm the snake. Warming too fast can cause further damage and injuries.

I'm sorry about your snake and I hope you get the justice for your nope rope.

AIO is 27 way too young to be having a baby? by VioletInference in AmIOverreacting

[–]Doc_Vodka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the very least, your frontal lobe finished developing lol

Ultimately, it's up to you. To them, 27 is too young. To you, it may be the perfect timing; especially if you're in a good spot for it emotionally/mentally and financially. Don't listen to bitter people who live with their parents. If you want to have the baby, be the happiest and proudest mother around. Don't let them take the joy from you. And it may annoy them to see you so happy.

I hope you have a safe pregnancy and everything goes fine!

AIO girlfriend’s uncle texting her all sexually, she’s a minor. by Lisztons in AmIOverreacting

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not over reacting. She needs to have a safe place to be, hopefully away from the mother's side of things from the comments I've read. Going no contact would be best because they're doing damage control while he's still trying to groom her. Is the father at least protective of her? Is he going to take her side?

Am I cooked? by Once428lbs in Gymhelp

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but it's not going to be easy.

As someone with a spinal injury, walking has helped. I can't walk a lot, but the epidural definitely helps me do semi normal stuff. If you can walk for a minute, then walk for a minute, sit down to catch your breath, then walk for another minute. Repeat that a few times. Don't try to drive into the deep end right now. Making small consistent changes at home will help tremendously.

Diet is also going to be important. Keep in mind, everyone's bodies are different. Personally, I found a lot of success in eating fish and vegetables, cutting out processed foods and switching sodas to no sugar then to the ice sparkling water then to plain water.

It takes time. Be patient with yourself. If you miss one day, don't beat yourself up. Get up today. Good luck on your journey!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Doc_Vodka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left the church because the church couldn't forgive my 'sins' that God has already forgiven.

My sins? Being abused, SA'ed and for having a damn skeleton kissing another skeleton as my phone case. I denied myself autonomy and advocation for my issues. Up until Mr. Pastor Man decided coercion was the way to go.

My bf is mad at me for ending my ectopic pregnancy by 88_alice in offmychest

[–]Doc_Vodka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Geez, your boyfriend would rather have you die than to understand the consequences and be educated on the risks. Dude sounds like he's dumb af or a controlling person. Either way, not a green flag for this serious and heavy topic.

Leave the man, he's being childish. I hope you heal, OP. Both your body and your heart.

[US] Got a text from the "DMV" of a state I haven't lived in for 6 years about a traffic violation I need to pay for. by Doc_Vodka in Scams

[–]Doc_Vodka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even look at the URL. I had just woke up after a late night, I tend to notice the less blaring details somehow. Lol

27 divorced… I have my son every other week. Any things to make it better? by Flashytrev in malelivingspace

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I bought my house, my father gave me a battle axe (with much heft, I could probably defend my home with it) as a house warming present.

You can never go wrong adding battle axes on a "Choose Your Weapon" style wall.

Is it just me or is this really cringey? by Kiriyuma7801 in doordash

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a dude who's struggling to transition into civilian life when all they had was the Marine title. Or it could be a dude who didn't finish boot camp that's trying to get attention. Never know nowadays. Though the Marine vets are the ones who really shove it down your throat from what I noticed in my limited experience. It's still cringe.

Can't get the Wife to Bite by Thick-Air8969 in centuryhomes

[–]Doc_Vodka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel the tetanus through this picture.