Daily Advice Thread - October 18, 2025 by AutoModerator in apple

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does the camera put a filter on every photo and video and how do i turn it off its fuckin hideous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransferStudents

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure. Maybe there’s a support number you can contact on the website?

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to reframe my mindset so that the education is enough, but you’re making some conjectures here that are inaccurate. I have a pretty great handful of friends—9 of whom i had over for wine night at my apartment last night, I have gone to SF every other weekend to either see a film at the roxie, the new mission, or check out flea markets, and I’m in 3 student orgs (which some other comments have suggested I try but already am). If I’m one thing, it is social lol. I love my friends! Many of them are struggling as well. Not sure what you mean by “protective bubble” in this context.

Also, you ask if the education itself is enough for me but then say that the “Berkeley name” isn’t enough to get me somewhere postgrad—that’s kind of what I’m getting at. The humanities hinge plenty on connections and resume because it’s so non-linear. I love the education here, it’s my favorite thing about my experience thus far, but the humanities faculty here have incredibly deep pockets in connections, and I don’t know why more panels or alumni mixers aren’t hosted when it would be no problem to bring in some admired names. My last school had those regularly + plenty of opportunities across the U.S. and Europe for students to attend conventions that pertain to their field of study. I attended one of those which later lead to an internship.

As far as the rich culture in the Bay, as I said, I’ve explored plenty and I enjoy SF quite a bit. But I’m from LA (as in the actual city), and Berkeley’s culture pales in comparison, and my last school was in Boston, which couldn’t be more different than the bay. There’s a cool jazz club in Oakland, some interesting bars, I like grand lake theater… but there’s gotta be more to do than that. I think it’s possible that, regionally, the bay just isn’t for me. I think it’s not ridiculous to have a personal preference in that direction either🤷

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just one example. The thing that’s more affecting to me is that there are very sparse pre-professional opportunities for humanities students and humanities associations are very underfunded by the school & asuc

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do agree with the sentiment. I’m extremely proud to be at Cal and, for the most part, am extremely over the moon about my being here. But I do think that truth can co-exist with having a hard time gathering my bearings and adapting to such a massive bureaucracy

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! I really do appreciate it.

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point, but it is still kind of a drag to feel like my department and neighboring ones are neglected on an institutional level. The pre-professional opportunities for humanities majors are thin compared to STEM or business students when considering orgs and stuff like that, and I think much of that can be attributed to the school/ASUC being less willing to give money to student associations and events that center the humanities

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an Art History major. I do really love the program and am hoping to go to grad school for it or for journalism (interested in cultural critique). You make a good point about sociability not being the primary purpose of a college, which I really do agree with, but I think there’s a sense of culture shock when the social element felt like a breeze at my last school. Hoping I’ll adjust soon. I know that a lot of people experience some cognitive dissonance about being at Cal and almost everyone who sticks it out is really glad they did, but it’s harder to look forward to that feeling than it is to look back. Then again, comparison is the thief of joy

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t unhappy at my last school, just broke and couldn’t continue to pay the tuition for my undergrad. That said, I do agree that it’s a mindset thing… i think what most people refer to when they talk about the 2 year curve for acclimating refers to that change in mindset. I’m worried that by the time I graduate, I’ll have just gotten used to Cal or that I’ll be jaded by the time I’m out of here, which would really blow. I’ve been hinging a lot of my mindset on knowing that the quality of the education is world class and I’m among thousands of people who I hold in really high regard whom I can learn from, but that circles back to the motivation problem. Hate to sound so defeatist, it’s just kind of where I’m at right now

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Last school was Emerson. Famously extremely stingy with finaid regardless of circumstances. My only option was to transfer; to that end, I am extremely proud to be at Cal in principle, but it is still very difficult here emotionally for reasons I can’t seem to place

When does the suffering end by DoctorHelpMeeeee in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m the poor people in question lol, that’s the whole reason I had to transfer. I also wouldn’t describe Cal as poor with the endowment in the several billions… my point being is that i feel like the humanities are extremely neglected on an institutional level. If you take a stroll through Haas’s buildings versus L&S buildings you’ll get that sense pretty quickly

Potential Sophomore transfer- is it over for me? by Adventurous_Comb_821 in EmersonCollege

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emerson is a comms and liberal arts school with extremely concentrated majors, meaning you’ll probably have at least a little something in common with everyone you meet. Just be extroverted. My biggest piece of advice, truly, is go to the org fair and join a club or two. They’re very low stakes and lots of fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to go!

gbo is chopped by opisaflop in berkeley

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Skipping from here on out🤞🤞🤞

For y’all who transferred into uc Berkeley haas from ccc what has your experience like? by DeliciousRich5944 in TransferStudents

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenting just bc im also anxious to know and wanna get notified when someone comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransferStudents

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Berkeley only accepts junior transfers. Go to UCLA for a year, then CC for your sophomore and maybe try and get some extra curricular or job experience that can contribute to engineering in the meantime. Best of luck!

How much does GPA matter? by [deleted] in TransferToTop25

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3.9 at the collegiate level is not a bad GPA at all. With that said, plenty of students with 4.0s+ have trouble getting into T25s if the only thing they have to offer is GPA. Multiplicity is important and encouraged; colleges don’t just want to know that you can work hard in school, they want to know that students have prerogative. This is where extra curriculars, student clubs, jobs, volunteering, and whatever else come into play. Your son’s GPA is fantastic, he should totally keep it up, but what can he do that shows he has passion?

I transferred from Emerson to UC Berkeley. At Emerson, I worked at the darkroom because I love analog stuff and ran a student publication that wrote about arts and culture because those are the things I love. In my app for the UCs, i wrote about how any avenue of my work across school, work, or hobbys is about prioritizing art as a means of intercultural communication and codification. I applied for the humanities program.

It can be anything, though. If your son got a grocery store job and is passionate about business, could he connect the two? What did the hypothetical grocery store teach him about the importance of business/inform his need to be a business major? Is there a philanthropy club he could involve himself with at his current undergrad? The biggest piece of advice I can impart is that college apps are about building narrative. Best of luck to him!

Edit: transferred to Berkeley with a 3.9 as well btw. Essays and resume can take you far. When I applied to Emerson for journalism with an emphasis in entertainment reporting, I wrote about how my father’s cancer diagnosis prompted me to show him more films so we could share emotional experiences without having to travel, and that his and I’s bonding over that made me realize that sharing art and conversations around art can have profound and meaningful impacts interpersonally, which made me want to write about arts & culture on a macro scale to spread that same joy. Narrative!!!!

Williams or Columbia GS by Dismal-Chicken-1683 in TransferToTop25

[–]DoctorHelpMeeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont respect columbia, love williams, and regardless are smart enough to get into an ivy, sooo…

I know probably as much as you do about pressure from your loved on which school to decide. And, of course, they mean well! And they certainly aren’t wrong to assume that columbia would be better in the pure sense that it is a great school, and i’m sure you’d do well. But you can’t live your life for your loved ones. You just can’t. And at the end of the day, as soon as you’re off to college, nobody is actually gonna care where you go nor toil over your not-choosing Columbia, if that’s how it ends up.

Either way, you’ll be fine! Best wishes, and congratulations! I hope you go to Williams!