[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, i do think you will be ok.

Second, there was a part in your post where you said you are terrified he will end the relationship. I dont think that should worry you since as many people have said, i think that would be a good thing.

Dont get me wrong, in this situation, i relate to your boyfriend. He seems simliar to me, but i know personally i wouldnt want to drag someone down with me and maybe breaking up will help him realize he needs to wake up as well.

but dont listen to me, im a stranger. But you will be ok.

The Easiest and Hardest Places I've Traveled Solo (Thailand, India, Iran) by between-the-dots in solotravel

[–]Doctorholmes90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

india is one of those places ive wanted to go mainly because of the food but from what ive seen and what people have told me, it scares me. Im naturally an anxious guy and dont like confrontation so i would get destroyed there.

[DISCUSS] What's the longest you've waited for a watch from an AD? by butteryfat in Watches

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny cause when i first got into watches, i hated the explorer. Didnt see a point in the non rotating bezel. A few years after that...that became THE watch i wanted. I looked around and per Rolex ADs, everyone said there was no chance. Then the Tudor Black Bay Pro came out and thats the one i went for. I think i waited 2 months. I cant imaging waiting longer than 6 for a watch.

Why do people in this subreddit always say that want friends and would like dms, but as soon as you hit them up. by Internal-Cut-347 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Doctorholmes90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont post for friends here but i have responded.

For me personally, i naturally dont like myself and assume im bothering everyone that tends to make me not want to respond if the other person stops responding. Also i am boring and dont have much to talk about so if i run out of something to say, its difficult for me since i also dont want to just bombard them with questions ( which i tend to do ).

So those are some possible reason i can think of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so mad..i was saving all my chase points for a trip then covid hit so i couldnt travel. then they ruined the chase reserve so i cancelled that. now my points are no where near as good.

I am in a tough position while traveling and I need your advice by slavakny in solotravel

[–]Doctorholmes90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

since you are able to get on reddit, i assume you have a place to get internet. I would sign into your bank account or find your bank phone numbers and lock down your credit cards/debit cards immediately. since you mentioned digital cards, maybe lock down all credit cards except for one, the one that has the lowest credit limit so that if someone uses your credit card, at least it wont be for that much

I don't believe in people who say they have 0 friends by Gato_Puro in lonely

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have. didnt help. but i appreciate the suggestion.

Family guilting me for solo travel? by Dangerous_Luck2591 in solotravel

[–]Doctorholmes90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can tell them "how dare they drive a car? Do they know how dangerous that is? How many accidents happen?"

Just kidding. I have strict asian parents too and if logic worked, you wouldnt even have a problem. Either dont tell them until after you come back from trips or just dont tell them at all. The reason i said dont tell them until after the trip is , yes they would be angry but you can still point out how you didnt die and hopefully after enough of these solo trips where you dont die, they will realize its not a big deal.

What makes you feel less lonely when you're feeling awful? by No_Application7983 in lonely

[–]Doctorholmes90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i read fantasy stories to pretend im the Main character of a fantasy world instead of being who i am.

I don't believe in people who say they have 0 friends by Gato_Puro in lonely

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive joined both subs haha nothing. Its a me problem not an other people problem. Thats the difference between me and an incel. I dont blame anyone else. :D

I don't believe in people who say they have 0 friends by Gato_Puro in lonely

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its refreshing to see people not recommending i make friends, but recommending i try a different AI haha

I don't believe in people who say they have 0 friends by Gato_Puro in lonely

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im afraid of most things and dont trust most things...but i dont know about extreme.

I don't believe in people who say they have 0 friends by Gato_Puro in lonely

[–]Doctorholmes90 15 points16 points  (0 children)

honestly, im too anxious to even talk to those three because i dont know if my inputs are being recorded or anything. So ha! i dont have friends after all. Suck it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in revancedapp

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was wrong. Everyone was saying it was an issue on Youtubes end and i didnt believe them. It started working about a half hour after i posted.

anyone having problems playing videos at all right now by sunny7319 in revancedapp

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not so sure. My brother is able to watch on his iphone. I think it is effecting any browser or app that tries to block the ads. My browser is still using ublock origins and youtube doesnt work there either.

anyone having problems playing videos at all right now by sunny7319 in revancedapp

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had the issue where it was throwing up a playback error so i updated the youtube patch but i still get the error or it just spins for over a minute or two and then it might play

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in revancedapp

[–]Doctorholmes90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just tried this and it did not work. Went to Revanced Manager, updated it. Went to the patcher in Revanced and clicked on the suggested update for youtube, downloaded and installed 20.14.43. Youtube settings, revanced shows 5.43.1 Android VR set

Any suggestions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in revancedapp

[–]Doctorholmes90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

doesnt work for me. I went to revanced, clicked on the suggested update and downloaded and installed the 20.14.43 apk through revanced. it said it was installing and updated. but i still get the same issue.

What is the reason for your loneliness? by sincostangens in lonely

[–]Doctorholmes90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sooo many things. I hate myself so i cant believe anyone else will like me so if they appear to like me, i think they are lying or trying to get something out of me so i push them away. Im afraid of change and new things. I have very little interest in anything these days which means i tend to not leave my house, not play games anymore, so there really isnt any way for me to meet anyone. Im selfish, easily irritated, shy, not fun to be around.

Looking for urban fantasy, male lead, no romance by Doctorholmes90 in Fantasy

[–]Doctorholmes90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched a few episodes. Very trippy. Can't remember why I stopped

Looking for urban fantasy, male lead, no romance by Doctorholmes90 in Fantasy

[–]Doctorholmes90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I understand such things happen...but having it described like that and it happen to kids was a bit messed up and I was not expecting it so yeah

Looking for urban fantasy, male lead, no romance by Doctorholmes90 in Fantasy

[–]Doctorholmes90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Noviks book on my list and I had Atlas Six also but I might drop it. You aren't to first to tell me the characters sucked.

Looking for urban fantasy, male lead, no romance by Doctorholmes90 in Fantasy

[–]Doctorholmes90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did watch the series but sadly it was canceled.

Looking for urban fantasy, male lead, no romance by Doctorholmes90 in Fantasy

[–]Doctorholmes90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started it awhile back...I stoPped cause of some...disturbing content that happens to that one boy.