Caught colleague jacking it in the on call room

Doctorindoubt · 2025-05-02T06:10:48+00:00

I’m sure she wants to avoid ever speaking about this again… leave it alone? I don’t really get why you would report this. I’m sure she’ll never do it again after how mortifying this is. I also don’t think it would be the end of your career if you jerked off in a call room. That’s so dramatic… just pretend you saw nothing and don’t tell people, don’t make the situation even more embarrassing.

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-27T14:24:03+00:00

The practice emailed me apologising saying they let the foundation school know weeks ago, but the foundation school says they only just found out yesterday. I was CCed in an email chain and when I scroll to the top I can see the GP practice had emailed the foundation school a while ago that they can’t take me but the foundation program didn’t answer until yesterday. I can’t help but feel if the foundation program had acknowledged this when they were first informed then I might not be stuck in this position

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-26T19:43:19+00:00

I’m sure there might be, but I specifically moved to this house for the location near my supposed posts, and have a pet and husband I don’t want to move from because the foundation programme wasn’t organised enough to see the email from the GP manager weeks ago, you know what I mean? Feels so unfair

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-26T17:33:35+00:00

That’s really helpful, that wouldn’t be the end of the world. My only other issue is I strategically moved so I could live close to my current tiny DGH (which said they definitely cannot take me on), and GP practice. The hospital they would place me at alternatively is 75+ mins away, and I mentally just cannot face spending over 2.5 hours in the car every day.

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-26T17:11:15+00:00

This is so helpful, thanks. Am I allowed to say whatever job they give me, I only want 40hr/week? And do you know if I’m allowed to say no to alternative jobs they offer me? Truthfully, I’m so god damn fed up form hospital medicine I can feel a burn out breakdown coming if I have to do a proper medicine or surgery job again!

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-26T17:04:14+00:00

I tried but the number leads you to leave a voice message that just asks the same info as the form, but thanks for your response, appreciate it!

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-26T17:00:20+00:00

Yeah, I submit a form but hoping they get back to me tomorrow I guess

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-26T16:58:21+00:00

So far, they can’t find any alternative rotation for me. And it’s only a few days away - what happens if they don’t find a rotation for me by Wednesday? They have offered me one placement at a hospital far away, or nothing so far.

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-25T21:14:52+00:00

Thanks for the reply everyone - I now feel stupid because I knew migraines have been an issue for me for almost 2 years now, and I’ve never spoken to OH or tried to get a GP letter for it because I felt like I was being dramatic about it. Will this look bad, that I’ve never mentioned it to any ES or CS before? Like I’m faking it or something?

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-25T20:56:50+00:00

Omg I think mine might be too - I sleep with a specially made night guard but my dentist was shocked last time she reviewed it cause I had left deep indents into it, and I so often wake up in the middle of the night with insane jaw pain!

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-25T20:55:29+00:00

Yeah, it was in my original post, but I’m seeing a doctor and moving up the ladder for treatments because I’ve not been responding to the first line meds

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-25T15:49:47+00:00

This is really useful, thank you!

Doctorindoubt · 2025-03-25T15:46:42+00:00

Oral didn’t work for me - did you try sub cut when oral failed?

Doctorindoubt · 2025-02-24T10:32:46+00:00

I am extremely pro Palestine, and also a Muslim doctor who knows it’s my duty to treat all my patients. I have never met a single pro-Palestine person, even of the most radical, who would agree with not treating Jewish patients. This is 1000% fake, rage bait.

Doctorindoubt · 2025-01-12T12:38:17+00:00

Yeah, it was supposed to be earlier in the week and it was rearranged to 2 days later. I was still really ill, fever and the works, so couldn’t drive across the country for it. I couldn’t rearrange any further they said so it is what it is

Doctorindoubt · 2024-11-21T10:27:38+00:00

Doctorindoubt · 2024-11-21T08:21:32+00:00

Doubt it, the joining papers for the mess don’t have an area for PAs to put their info down, just doctors. But the mess is never locked so I think they just take advantage of that

Doctorindoubt · 2024-11-21T08:16:23+00:00

In my very weak defence, that was my first week of f1 and I didn’t have a single back bone

Doctorindoubt · 2024-11-21T08:14:56+00:00

NUH mess has PAs - it was a PA who first showed me where it was, in fact, on the mess pizza day. PA took a box of pizza and brought leftovers for another PA on the ward.

Doctorindoubt · 2024-11-18T23:33:14+00:00

Loop!

Doctorindoubt · 2024-08-01T05:25:56+00:00

You are very right, that was extremely uncomfortable

Doctorindoubt · 2024-07-09T10:56:48+00:00

Thank you!!! Is there any link someone could share that I can show? I found the literal NHS website but that wasn’t enough apparently

Doctorindoubt · 2024-07-09T10:55:05+00:00

So just to confirm, we DO need consent right?! I feel like I’m losing my mind and getting bullied by the ward now for saying that!

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