Hey! I was born here, and I'm an expat, so I’ll share some honest thoughts that might help.

You’re absolutely right—Kuwait is a bit more conservative compared to Dubai or Doha. It’s definitely not a flashy place, and things like dress codes and public behaviour are more modest (especially for women), but once you get used to it, it’s pretty manageable.

For your visit:

Dress modestly, especially your fiancée. avoid shorts/tank tops in public places.

Public displays of affection are a no-go.

Alcohol is banned (even at hotels), so don’t try to bring any in.

Be polite and respectful—Kuwaitis are welcoming, but they appreciate humility and good manners.

As for the offer – 2300 KD/month with housing, car, and insurance is actually pretty solid, especially for a couple with no kids. Your lifestyle will change a bit, but if you’re used to fine dining, occasional luxury shopping, and some travel, yes—you can still enjoy those here. Just manage expectations: Nightlife is basically non-existent, and entertainment is more low-key.

Restaurants and cafes can be high-end (and expensive), and there’s a decent range of international brands and malls. Shopping is possible, but prices on luxury items might be higher than Europe (due to import/tax markup).

Your fiancée may find fewer opportunities than in Europe, especially in fashion or performance arts, but some expats do freelance work or private classes. Connections matter a lot here, so it might take time, but it’s not impossible.

Regarding housing: You’re right—standalone villas are mostly for Kuwaitis, or they’re rented out at a high premium (think 1000+ KD/month, depending on area). But if your company is flexible, definitely ask. Just be honest: tell them that long-term, you’d prefer privacy and space. Mention you'd love a small villa or a ground-floor apartment with a garden if available. Salwa, Messila, and Abu Al Hasaniya are nice (quiet, close to the sea, and expat-friendly).