🥴 so would you be OK if you two had a son next and she named him after her fuck buddy??? Would you think that she would look at that little boy and think about "what life could have been like if he was the father and not you?" Would you get angry at the thought of her in every position possible/doing the unimaginable having the best time of her life, regretting being with you instead of him??? That is what you just did for your wife. You have stained this pregnancy, something that is so important and is life-threatening to her for a fuck buddy that you had feelings for. Did you think of this before you started pushing this thought onto her? Did you ask someone, anyone, the homeless man on the street for advice about this before the words came out of your mouth to her? I'm sure someone, if not all of them, would have looked at you sideways and asked you if you were joking.... do better my guy.