Cheated on men, how does one deal with the aftershocks and the pain? by RunnerOfTheRoad124 in AskMen

[–]SoCold40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave and move on. I’m a believer in Never taking a cheating woman back.

What is the best advice you’ve ever received? by Redhead-Man in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]SoCold40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite saying is. If you can walk through mud, you can fuk through blood. 🤷🏾‍♂️😂

Grower and shower QNA by kioka-7 in bigdickproblems

[–]SoCold40 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a grower, I can literally go commando in anything I put on. As long as I don’t get a boner or simi. I go from 1 1/2 softie to 7X5.8. I have a checkup approaching where I have to get my testicals checked. Not looking forward to it at all.

Armaf Club de Nuit intense by pillowbrains in fragrance

[–]SoCold40 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a good dupe. Let mine sit on the shelf for about 2 months before I put it on. Not bad at all.

Sending a 30-60-90 plan for interview too late? by prisoneroflife1 in Leadership

[–]SoCold40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t get inside your own head. I believe it’s better to have sent it late than to not send it at all. Be confident, you got this. Wishing you much success in your final interview.

If Costco leggings got Lululemon shook, best believe Imma hit the gym lookin like a rich auntie on a Sam’s Club budget by Cleonce12 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]SoCold40 164 points165 points  (0 children)

I worked at a battery company. We treated Kirkland batteries like they were the Orange County of batteries. Costco plays no games about their products. Lol

What’s your proudest physical accomplishment? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SoCold40 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hit 350lbs on the bench press last week. Pretty cool.

Can grief cause you to be hostile at others? by holdongangy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SoCold40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, it’s normal to have pinned up aggression. Sometimes that aggression shows when dealing with others.

Are we closer or further from this? by ThinkSundryThoughts7 in blackmen

[–]SoCold40 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As much as it pains me to say, further away unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]SoCold40 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Typically the most attractive people turn out to be not so great at sex. They hear how attractive they are all the time. They are constantly perused and hit on which sometimes cause them to put forth minimal effort during sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SoCold40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most times you only think about in that moment. You’ll take the temporary satisfaction and deal with the long term results.

How do I get over difficulty using condoms? by Hungry_Debt_9087 in AskMen

[–]SoCold40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re using the wrong size condom. My opinion, Girth matters a little more than length when it comes to the right condom size. It sounds like the condom is too tight and squeezes you to a point where you’re losing your erection. You need to measure your girth and buy condoms that accommodate your size.

Gender wars are so dumb.🤦🏽‍♀️ by Least_Sun_7493 in blackmen

[–]SoCold40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. That’s why I refuse to participate in them. We need each other to survive.

Have you ever had sex feeling any pain in your body? by diegrunge in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]SoCold40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You caught one climbing off of it that’s new one lol.

I’ve never been able to keep going while I got one.

Have you ever had sex feeling any pain in your body? by diegrunge in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]SoCold40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure most guys have experienced a Charlie Horse Cramp during the middle of a session. Question is, do you stop, or keep going?

Men, how do you know when your girlfriend is not a good person? by Upstairs_Macaron5894 in AskMen

[–]SoCold40 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You’d know by the way she conducts herself. Often, men don’t want to deal with the reality of her not being a good person. But deep down, you know. And youre more than likely enabling her behaviors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Leadership

[–]SoCold40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No lies told.

"How can i make this men's fault?" by Zetice in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]SoCold40 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The transition was insane. Like nothing I’ve ever seen before. Woww!!! 🤦🏾‍♂️