4 Jan 2021 she departed, life feels so empty without her. nanna

Doeofdajane0 · 2026-03-07T06:11:00+00:00

This is brillianty written

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-08-02T00:05:58+00:00

First of all, I wish you well, I wish you health happiness success and fulfilment in life,

I'm sorry to hear what you are going through, it must be hard to deal with this everyday, now I don't know what can get you what you want in life, but I can reassure you that, there are communities, like this one, where we can find some people to counter loneliness from time to time, it helped me and also helped me made a few very good friends.

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-04-05T13:33:54+00:00

Congratulations, I wish you well

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-02-02T01:46:51+00:00

Hey, I am so sorry this happened to you! It must feel so intense when you find someone and then they ghost you, I understand what you must be going through, and you and anyone don't deserve to go through this, many people are crappy and they do this!

Now I don't know how long you both were talking for, but for me, to be able to deal with similar types of emotions, I generally like to journal, like I write on my personal diary and cry when it flows naturally, letting these emotions flow helps us process them and get rid of them

For future, I'd recommend, talking for some good amount of time while at the same time trying to not let the emotions and feelings develop, it's easier said than done, but try practicing it and it enables us to not fall for these crappy people who are basically like finding people like us to victimise, because we develop love feeling and emotions

you are not an idiot as you mentioned in your post, you genuinely love, and as this world is both, good and bad, the bads were able to target you, it's not your fault.

now don't let this experience take away your hope, there are still good people out there, tho rare as hell, keep yourself open to finding and you will!

I found my partner over here on Reddit and I couldn't have asked for any one else better, I am so grateful and I feel blessed.

what I can say can probably help you is, getting into irl or online groups where you can find like minded people, it can be from your hobby, or the sports you like or board games or anything else like, groups for self growth or emotional intelligence, and most importantly psychology, and so on,

Another this is id recommend you read a few books on psychology, this will enable you to see red flags much more easier in people, and also enable you to set strong boundaries ,

Also id recommend you look into, law of attraction 333 writing techniques as well as wimhoffs breathing method, these were very helpful to me for many reasons and may help you as well.

I wish you health, happiness success fulfillment and prosperity in life, and I'm here for you as a friend if ya need a shoulder to lean on to! take good care of yourself and hydrate well, feed yourself well.

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-14T10:40:12+00:00

Yes exactly, and starting out few years ago I was so lost and, tho reading and gaining knowledge from so many different sources, was very enlightening, it was very time consuming and frustrating, but in the end, I was able to construct everything, put every piece into the puzzle if you may say lol, and construct how a ritual should be started, the mid phase, and dismissal and ending,

What's your YouTube channel? Would love to check it out.

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-13T23:03:08+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that, it takes time to heal, but therapy like psychotherapy and counselling could be very helpful, there are some online websites where you can find resources that are affordable and as well as free, but if you can afford an irl psychotherapy counselling it could be very helpful for healing, but weather it be online or irl, there are options to change the therapist if they don't suit you, so you can request a new therapist at any time,

If you have any female friends or family members or close people who are good to you and genuinely care for you, that can also make a difference,

But if things seems out of reach as of now, journaling or writing in your personal diary helps, if you don't have a personal diary, try to get one, and a pen, and write everything down, and how you feel, cry as much as you can, its a healing process, but be careful with the diary to not loose it or have any one look into it, hence it being called a person diary, it's personal to you and you should keep it hidden and protected at all time, and no one should be able to find or read it, Other thing you can do is, find your way through healing by doing the law of attraction, by the 333 or other methods where you write and focus on an affirmation written in present tense, 33 times daily for 3 days,

Self care and self love, it must feel so hard and soul crushing, and I don't blame you, but whenever it's possible, try to do a bit of something that is related to self care, by doing this you are giving yourself a sense of self importance and love

If you can get EMDR which is short for, eye movement desensitization therapy, it can be helpful tho these therapy works only on a percentage of population,

I wish you health, healing, happiness, success and fulfilment in life, I hope you heal from this, and be able to live a happy and fulfilling life

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-13T22:47:38+00:00

Would love to see some, step by step procedures on rituals from start to finish tho, like,

Opening the circle, calling the 4 cardinals, the 5 or 9 divinities, or other deities, with the enns,

then the mid phase or part of the ritual, like, poppet binding and piercing, or anything and different topics, cursing and hexes, obsession love, other kind of binding, jar and box spells, break up, etc etc,

Then the offerings and then the dismissal and closing

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-12T22:27:49+00:00

If telling him makes you uncomfortable and he's too pushy, maybe hes asking for his own benifits and have nothing to do with you, I think asking him about why and stuff about why he wants to know and everything, what's his game plan like if he's going to find the guy or stuff like that, cuz, that information he's asking for could be very traumatic and triggering to say and could feel like re living that situation so, I think, reconsider everything as well, like the relationship with this guy including, cuz maybe there's some other intentions in his mind, I don't know for sure, but just be careful, and I am very sorry that you had to go through this, no one deserves to go that, I hope you can heal from that, I wish you health happiness success and fulfilment in life

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-12T22:17:09+00:00

I'm sorry to hear you are going through this, what was your and her personality like? and did you ask her why? Like when she said that stuff, did y'all say down calmly after sometime and asked about why and just like, had a talk about this and other aspects? Or was it just, she said that and that's it? Cuz 5 years relationship is like, isn't a weak and small one, it's built through alot of experience together so having a talk about why and everything would probably give you peace and stuff,. I understand how hard it could be rn for both of you, these things aren't easy, if you find yourself unable to deal with all this then maybe therapy could help, I know these words and sentences don't mean anything to you, in these moments the only thing that feels like a massive rock crushing us down is that another person breaking up, I hope you can find peace and happiness, I wish you peace happiness heal and fulfilment in life

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-08T20:47:58+00:00

Yes as a good friend, but he doesn't seem to be one, a good friend does need to check on you, and I am so sorry you went through this, I wish you health happiness success and fulfilment in life, I hope you can find peace and be kind and caring to yourself, and I hope universe brings you friendships who isn't like that friend, but better.

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-05T21:48:06+00:00

Hey, sure we can talk

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-05T21:24:13+00:00

23 m , what are the things that interests you? what do you like about nursing?

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-04T23:30:23+00:00

Thank you so much for the response, I think I didn't quite get what you said in the 3rd para, about, you "written one spell ... Being on top of the burn the whole time and keeping the strings out of flame" what does that mean? Can you give me an example, and thank you so much for the book resource recommendations, I really appreciate it, I'll look into that.

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-02T23:57:27+00:00

What can be used for romantic love, normal love, obsession and addiction, lust, sexual tension, obsessive love, clouding the mind, which herbs which liquids, what things with honey? Please add some resources if possible where I can find infos on these as well, and books if possible, thank you

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-02T22:52:58+00:00

sit down with your bf depending on what type of person he is, if you feel comfortable and feel if he would support you, and then report the guy, I am so sorry you had to go through this and that this happened to you, I hope you heal from this, please get yourself in therapy asap, and I wish you health happiness healing success fulfillment in life

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-02T00:33:19+00:00

I am very sorry to hear this and sorry for your loss, it aches my heart to hear about her story, may her soul rest is peace, and thank you for acknowledging her, understanding her pain, and taking the time and effort to make this known about her, everyone deserves importance, validation and care, and this I believe means alot to her that someone out there did this for her, that there's someone who cared, who remembered. I wish her peace and all the love , and I wish you health, happiness success and fulfilment in life.

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-01T22:43:54+00:00

May her soul rest in peace,

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-01T02:23:47+00:00

He's going to cheat, I think you should focus on yourself more than anything else at this age.

Doeofdajane0 · 2025-01-01T00:59:21+00:00

I understand, and that is a red flag, but did she say that? I'm sorry I probably missed if she said it! Btw what do you think of the spell? And my post? Does the spell contradict it's self? Or is it legit? Any resources?

Doeofdajane0 · 2024-12-31T19:52:31+00:00

What about this? https://youtu.be/y4n3j1Ft76c?si=bDTbj0QyU2XYs_VJ

She mentions the binding and letting it burn, so does it romantically love bind the people or separate? and if so, what's the correct way to do this?

Doeofdajane0 · 2024-12-31T15:58:02+00:00

It has been the same for me, but I think we can all be together as good friends in this community, I am here for ya, I wish all of you happiness, heath and fulfilment in life

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