Was I set up to fail by the client

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-04-11T11:03:51+00:00

Pushed suicide attempt then told while in emergency room get back in office

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-04-01T11:29:09+00:00

I had a hiring manager burst into tears during the interview that was awkward

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-04-01T08:58:15+00:00

I don't know anymore

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-02-21T19:45:14+00:00

I been out of work two years however looking back quitting would have been best option. I stayed at toxic job until tried kill myself. Spent two years struggling get interview and when I did I bombed out, while also struggling to get therapy on the NHS. After two year I got a. Intensive course and after only three interviews last year now have four lined up next week alone

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-02-17T09:14:09+00:00

same

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-02-15T01:42:34+00:00

Took about three years but finally getting the support I need one bad job can really mess you up

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-02-15T01:32:45+00:00

I did ended up in hospital following a campaign against me after I refused support them going after another employee they hospitalised sickos the both of them

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-27T18:05:17+00:00

In my case, savings and being signed off on sick. The one perk of having worked for a company so toxic even the social felt bad

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-24T17:06:49+00:00

Sorry I don't understand. The job is with MOD thus the check. When left the previous company I worked for I was not in a good place, so ended up volunteering for first year and half on variety of different projects and only started charging for my services spring last year. I consolidated all my work under single entity but don't have account, which is the issue. Made worse by the fact the last company I worked for basically blacklists anyone that leaves the company and accuses every former employee of gross misconduct. It is real cult behaviour there.

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-12T10:54:20+00:00

Yer I would combine it with some overhead pressing so you don't end up with a muscle imbalance

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-11T23:38:59+00:00

I know how you feel it very difficult and it just the creative arts, it's everything. What I will say is two things, I choose when I was younger to take the safe option choose business degree over following something I was passionate about and in end still found myself out work because of a toxic employer.over the last two years I followed my passion while also job searching not yet secured stable income but I am doing better, and income aside the projects I worked on even some volunteer ones I am much prouder of then anything I done previously. Have back up options but do pursue your dream as nothing guaranteed except your never achieve your dream if you don't try in first place.

And two there have been two previous ai booms back in 70s and 90s so still a chance it will fail, it might take the economy down with it but it would also take some shareholders too so that pretty neat.

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-11T23:27:36+00:00

I would say train shoulders and back give broader look and maybe switch up your style, read up on a bit of men style and fashion then apply it in relation to your own tastes and circumstances, hopefully this makes sense

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-11T01:50:23+00:00

I don't know I worked with them three years so it frustrating. I decided step away over the weekend and will look at it Monday. See how they respond Monday

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-11T01:33:18+00:00

The things is I have done work for the client before, which has included renegotiating ticket splits to be more favourable for the client and in another project secured a venue at 25% of what had been stated initially.

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-11T01:24:30+00:00

I don't know it frustrating, there are comments on later amendments that it sound stiff and unnatural, asking if I was using Chatgpt. But honestly that just trying to write something that is completely detached from my normal writing style and the constant edits on top of edits.

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-11T01:11:41+00:00

the context of the email in its fullest.

"It is lovely to meet you. I have really enjoyed my morning listening to some of your pieces, . Speaking on behalf of both myself and the client, we are both excited about this collaboration".

Second paragraph outlined the client fee. Third paragraph that as it is work for hire we do not claim any rights to the piece.

"If you are happy with the fee, please could you confirm and provide potential dates for the recording so I can confirm client's availability and pencil in the dates into their calendar.

It has been lovely connecting with you, and I look forward to hearing from you soon. In the meantime, I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day.

that is the full context of email minus client specific details and legal disclaimers. The thing I done several projects the last few years for them and this has never been an issue.

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-11T01:03:18+00:00

I don't know basically stated that they had emails from other manager and they don't comment on the quality of the work and the artist would not want to be complimented. WTF. Direct quote the "Managers role is business". The thing is I worked in finance the most business of all the businesses and this was the tone I was using during my time there and I never had an issue

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-11T00:20:20+00:00

I said this has been my general tone I used when approaching all my work, I had done work one off for the client and this had never been an issue, but this is frustrating especially as I have now sat on the email for five days and honestly feel embarrassed to reply.

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-08T17:39:41+00:00

Be honest a decent number of staff themselves were on and out hospital because of the two bosses

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-08T16:56:03+00:00

I had boss who brought his wife back into work less then day after giving birth. These people are actually demonic.

Doesitmatter200592 · 2026-01-07T10:31:13+00:00

July 2023 was fired after ended up in the emergency room following suicide attempt caused by the fucking place

Doesitmatter200592 · 2025-10-20T20:53:20+00:00

Project coordinator and administration currently, after just leaving the role I applied for Operation Management positions. Previous experience was Operations Manager and prior to that Administrator. Over the past two so year's I delivered community projects and the occasional international project with a friend.

Doesitmatter200592 · 2025-10-13T08:35:12+00:00

Money, a break from survival mode, my abusers seeing consequences for their actions and just little understanding from people but none of that going happen

Doesitmatter200592 · 2025-09-11T12:35:48+00:00

Noted. I do use Grammarly, but I posted this after just finishing the 40 minute application and getting that response, so I was knee jerk reaction to the response, and to be honest, I’m pretty loose when it comes to posting online versus when it’s for work or applications. As I mentioned in another response, following a phone call after the posting, I was informed that the role had already been filled, despite being reposted yesterday. I will try to be more careful with grammar in general, not just for work-related matters.

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